Gabi Posted March 6, 2016 Share Posted March 6, 2016 Just venting it out I am in a long distance relationship and we havent seen each other for almost 5 months now although we regularly video call but that aint enough lately. My devil mind keeps on saying to me "Go find another girl...why are u settling for someone who isnt near u. You will find someone much better as there are millions of girls out there and you are just 25" Please do not consider that i dont love her. Yes i truly love her but i get these thoughts sometimes. We will be meeting after 30 days now and I plan to move in to her place after 3 months but my mind is going crazy and i simply can't handle it as its causing me lots of stress and depression Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted March 6, 2016 Share Posted March 6, 2016 The way you describe yourself is a bit odd. It's normal to want someone close to you. It doesn't make you diabolical. How long have you been together, and have you dated her while you live in the same city before? If not, I wouldn't jump from a LDR to living together. Link to post Share on other sites
Chris516 Posted March 6, 2016 Share Posted March 6, 2016 Just venting it out I am in a long distance relationship and we havent seen each other for almost 5 months now although we regularly video call but that aint enough lately. My devil mind keeps on saying to me "Go find another girl...why are u settling for someone who isnt near u. You will find someone much better as there are millions of girls out there and you are just 25" Please do not consider that i dont love her. Yes i truly love her but i get these thoughts sometimes. We will be meeting after 30 days now and I plan to move in to her place after 3 months but my mind is going crazy and i simply can't handle it as its causing me lots of stress and depression This may sound weird. But I think your 'insanity' is majorly trying to play 'catch-up', with your 'sanity'. I bet you are thinking, 'What in the world does he mean?'. What I mean is that, you know who you want. But in the back of your mind, your thought process is trying to look for any way to create doubt in your mind. You are not 'settling'. The one you want, just happens to be LD. I think it is great that you video call daily!!! Link to post Share on other sites
justwhoiam Posted March 7, 2016 Share Posted March 7, 2016 Gabi, are you sure she's the one you want? Because maybe your subconscious is trying to tell you something... 30 days are no big deal, especially if distance won't be an issue anymore in just 4 weeks. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted March 7, 2016 Share Posted March 7, 2016 Calm down. Your time apart is about to end. You are at the tail end. If you do move to be closer, do not immediately move in together. Going from LDR to living together is a recipe for disaster. Link to post Share on other sites
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