AlexDominico Posted March 6, 2016 Share Posted March 6, 2016 (edited) So am in ldr for around 3 month. Girl is emotionally quite cold and doesnt show much affection, no tight hugs, no i miss you texts and no real plans for future. Our connection is based on seks and mutual liking I guess, but no real mental bond. I thought she would open up more, but shes german and i think they are just all cold hearted [], as my last gf was too and left me without giving a fuark. After 3 month of dating I still dont know much about her and she seems very independent and doesnt really give a crap about me I guess. So ive cheated on her, only made out with 2 girls in a club, who pretty much approached me so made it very easy plus I was drunk. Truthfully I really like my gf but I dont think she will ever be affectionate person that I want. At the same time its ldr and am in best shape of my life so its quite easy to get slots. But I dont wanna dump my gf cause she is hot as hell and maybe just maybe she will open up. Plus the sex is great. I kindo plan to have side chicks while its ldr, I mean next time I will see her is in 2 month, thats just crazy considering we agreed seeing every few weeks before we agreed to be in ldr. goodplan? Edited March 6, 2016 by a LoveShack.org Moderator 1 Link to post Share on other sites
scooby-philly Posted March 6, 2016 Share Posted March 6, 2016 Ok - sorry pal, I don't normally say mean things, and I'll through in a caveat - this is based on your own words - but this sounds really shallow and you seem to have a double standard. You want her to be affectionate - are you? You cheated on her and don't want to dump her simply because she's hot. That's shallow, not fair to her, and certainly disrespectful of yourself. Just move on. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
PrettyEmily77 Posted March 6, 2016 Share Posted March 6, 2016 Your gf knows of this incredibly well-thought out, awsome and original plan, yes? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
sandylee1 Posted March 6, 2016 Share Posted March 6, 2016 Why is ending the relationship not the best thing to do? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Satu Posted March 6, 2016 Share Posted March 6, 2016 Great plan. What could possibly go wrong? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
mrldii Posted March 6, 2016 Share Posted March 6, 2016 OP, since YOU are not being exclusive in your LDR, why are you presenting your relationship as if it is? You didn't cheat on her, as - by your own words - it's not a relationship at all. There is no "cheating" in a "FWB" arrangement; "friends with benefits" is at best all you have with your "girlfriend". 2 Link to post Share on other sites
katiegrl Posted March 6, 2016 Share Posted March 6, 2016 Nevermind........ 1 Link to post Share on other sites
William Posted March 6, 2016 Share Posted March 6, 2016 Rather than process this thread out, I think we'll call it sufficiently discussed and move on. Thanks for the input. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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