True Gent Posted March 8, 2016 Share Posted March 8, 2016 Hang in there! This is a post mainly for those of us who are having a hard time dating. Particularly those using on line dating who perhaps feel like it's hopeles and that you're always trying to figure out how to impress, or you're second guessing wondering did it go well? Did they like me? Why haven't they been back in touch?I don't like anyone I meet etc... etc.. Then there are the trawls of profiles, lines of text with no personality. Pictures portraying a false image. There is no soul, it's a cold hostile place. Then one day after 2.5 years and well over 20+ first dates later 'BOOM' you meet each other and there is no second guessing, there is no forced conversation or awkwardness, you can feel the electricity hanging in the air! There is a twinkle in their eye and a smile on their face you cannot mistake, they raise your pulse and make you feel very special and appreciated. You just 'click'. It took me 2.5 years after a very horrible breakup to find the person who was worth every bit of the wait and the frustration of OLD. I've been seeing this girl for a month and we are officially exclusive, we love each others company so much we have to tear ourselves apart when life gets in the way. It's so comfortable yet passionate I honestly didn't think it was possible to find this girl who is so interesting, sincere, kind & loving. Just seeing her smile and hearing her voice makes me melt, it sounds corny but it's how it is. I know it's only been a month, but it's so good I just wanted to give some hope to those of you who feel like giving up. If you feel it's hopeless and you're never going to find that mutual chemistry try and be patient. I was almost ready to take down my OLD profile and accept it as a hopelessly flawed system full of materialistic shallow people who could not be satisfied no matter what you had to offer. On the other hand there are the hundreds who you just can't find attractive and you think it's not going to happen. They don't exist, I'm better off doing my own thing. Then one day out of the blue magic happens and your faith in fate and good things coming to those who wait is restored. No matter how crappy dating can be, never give up! Take a break, but keep the faith. The magic does happen! 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Zippy2000 Posted March 8, 2016 Share Posted March 8, 2016 Thanks for the heads up mate. I see youre in the UK. So am I. No such luck for me. Im been on and off on line dating since 2005! I ve only had one long lasting relationship from that and the others have either been nut jobs, freaks or time wasters. Some people have all the luck in dating. I ve tried to ask girls in real life and on line. It doesnt happen. That said I ve had 2 women who I previousily dated and both came back to ask me out again. I just left them to their own devices and they came back. By that time I lost all my feelings towards them All the best my friend. Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted March 8, 2016 Share Posted March 8, 2016 Thank you for sharing. I was 3,5 years online. I had close to 200 first meeting before I met my boyfriend. We've been dating 3 months and I still can't find him a flaw. It's possible to meet online, it takes patience. Good luck with everything :-) 3 Link to post Share on other sites
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