sherryboo Posted March 11, 2016 Share Posted March 11, 2016 We took a four year break, by my choice. My life turned upside down. Even my paid off car was totaled. I lost my cushy apartment etc., I have made the decision to get back with him. He is willing to help me buy a car and he buys me wonderful gifts, that I need horribly! So, even though he does not attract me, I can't live this way any longer. Its March and I should have a car by June. So, things are looking up. I will update. Link to post Share on other sites
Dontfindme Posted March 11, 2016 Share Posted March 11, 2016 I would hate to be on the receiving end of this. You should look towards fulfilling yourself, if you aren't happy with him. Dependency may not end well. Link to post Share on other sites
bunk Posted March 14, 2016 Share Posted March 14, 2016 Don't take this the wrong way, but it sounds like you're using him and only interested in getting back together with him for materialistic reasons. And that's a terrible reason to be with someone. You should be excited over "it's March and we should be going to a concert together in June," not excited over getting a car. And you even say he doesn't attract you. Think about it. Link to post Share on other sites
anika99 Posted March 14, 2016 Share Posted March 14, 2016 You're getting back together with your ex whom you're not even attracted to because buys you stuff and he's getting you a car. Look I know it's tough to be dirt poor and unable to pay the bills as I've been there many times myself but your solution to this is very short sighted. Just because you have fallen on hard times doesn't give you the right to use another person to fix your problems. Things are not looking up, actually things are getting worse because now you are acting poor in principles and morals as well as being financially poor. Link to post Share on other sites
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