unluckyfemale007 Posted March 11, 2016 Share Posted March 11, 2016 (edited) I recently started this new retail job going good staff get on good things are good and the second day I started there I spoke to this male member of staff hes shy cuddly and cute ticks my boxes to say the least it took him a while to be comfy around me and another male member of the work team started this joke about us having sexual tension with each other he was quiet shy around me till he knew me better an even manager staff came to me asking if I like him an do I want his number as even there saying were like a married couple an our nicknames are hubby and the wife. Anyway within the next few week he became more comfy with me having a laugh and doing stock take every few days I already like him by this point and thought he wasnt feeling it but this week something changed in him and we started play flirting (tackling each other to the floor) while the store was empty of course and even in the stockroom that side surprised me an end of the day we were all talking an he kept standing next to me like I was his "women" which I liked an we got talking and mentioned something that im not fond of having kids and something like that an hes got 2 kids by an ex next thing he tells me in front of to co workers that me and him were done were over an his shift finished an saw him next day at work he didnt seem himself around me avoided me like anything heard him whispering as I was unboxing in next isle hes went all cold on me was it the kids part that put him off me mates said it was an ive blowen it as hes not been the same since that morning he said were done Has he really been into me an was just seeing if me an him connected before anything else im so confused by this flirting thing at work Edited March 11, 2016 by unluckyfemale007 Link to post Share on other sites
66Charger Posted March 11, 2016 Share Posted March 11, 2016 Telling a parent that you are not fond of children will take you from a 10 to a zero, immediately. You may try to backtrack, but if any woman said they would have a problem with my daughter, the conversation would be over. He is a Dad. Move on. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted March 12, 2016 Share Posted March 12, 2016 Don't get selfish here and try to recover what happened. IMO if you are not into kids, never try to fake it that you do just because you really are into the guy. It's kind of an important thing to be on the same page with, don't you think? Oh well it didn't work out. He's moved on, and so should you. Link to post Share on other sites
NYC-BigKat Posted March 12, 2016 Share Posted March 12, 2016 I recently started this new retail job going good staff get on good things are good and the second day I started there I spoke to this male member of staff hes shy cuddly and cute ticks my boxes to say the least it took him a while to be comfy around me and another male member of the work team started this joke about us having sexual tension with each other he was quiet shy around me till he knew me better an even manager staff came to me asking if I like him an do I want his number as even there saying were like a married couple an our nicknames are hubby and the wife. Anyway within the next few week he became more comfy with me having a laugh and doing stock take every few days I already like him by this point and thought he wasnt feeling it but this week something changed in him and we started play flirting (tackling each other to the floor) while the store was empty of course and even in the stockroom that side surprised me an end of the day we were all talking an he kept standing next to me like I was his "women" which I liked an we got talking and mentioned something that im not fond of having kids and something like that an hes got 2 kids by an ex next thing he tells me in front of to co workers that me and him were done were over an his shift finished an saw him next day at work he didnt seem himself around me avoided me like anything heard him whispering as I was unboxing in next isle hes went all cold on me was it the kids part that put him off me mates said it was an ive blowen it as hes not been the same since that morning he said were done Has he really been into me an was just seeing if me an him connected before anything else im so confused by this flirting thing at work Uh...trying to date at work is never a good idea u know. Take it from me . 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Miss Peach Posted March 18, 2016 Share Posted March 18, 2016 I'm guessing the same at the other posters - the kids comments turned him off and he was hoping for something with you. Many men will overlook it for something that will always be casual though. Link to post Share on other sites
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