greyskies Posted June 21, 2005 Share Posted June 21, 2005 Originally posted by YouKnowIt Greyskies, I totally can relate to your honesty and believe every word you are saying (especially about the part where his mom made his brother come kick the girl out of the house, that is classic and totally something his mom would do) for I know this guy too, and he has been in many situations like this where he makes up stories and gets mad at his girlfriend, creates all this uncalled for anger. You should really tell your girl friend (seeming that you guys are mutual friends) to leave this guy alone, he is not good for her and she has a son to think about. He needs to get his act together and by her coming around and screwing with his mind, it does not help. Good luck... OTTA HERE. Thank God you came forward and said something because he was really trying to make me look like I was trying to bs the people here on LS. I don't know who you are but you must truly know him as I do because you know just what I'm talking about. I will and I have spoke with her and she really doesn't want to be around him since she was told she wasn't welcome there. But like today he texted her and said I got paid call me. (WHAT HE MENT WAS: I NEED TO BE A VICTIM TO VALIDATE MYSELF WONT YOU PLEASE COME AND TAKE ADVANTAGE OF ME?) Like I said I think He is an Al-right person but he isn't dealing with his problems he's feeding them and I can only say I tried to be his friend and I tried harder then he deserved me to. I knew in the end he would do this to me. So I was prepared and I am straight. I don't take losing a person as a friend very lightly but I'm cool. I did truly cared about him though the Pr**k! Link to post Share on other sites
Author WhatAmIDoin Posted June 21, 2005 Author Share Posted June 21, 2005 I am no longer requesting posting to this thread. I can no longer open up and say how I feel with these people who have no clue how I really feel. Link to post Share on other sites
Author WhatAmIDoin Posted June 21, 2005 Author Share Posted June 21, 2005 Not only that, but if you look at the other member who knows me, they were created in the same time frame that greay skies replied. What ever Lori. My other relationship was in the military, none of you knew me back then and it was low of you to create a second identity to get people to jump on your band wagon. Link to post Share on other sites
YouKnowIt Posted June 21, 2005 Share Posted June 21, 2005 Hey greyskies, I didn't mean to cause any problems for you online, but WOW. I know exactly how you feel and what you are going thru with Rob. He is difficult, angry, and causes all these problems. Really he does manifest ideas and have an anger issue. Just look out for your girl friend, I would be worried for her because she does have that responsibility to take care of her son. His Mom is a real pill though huh? :-) Anyways, best of luck to you guys, won't email anymore for I don't want to cause any more trouble. btw, he really has no clue that I am someone else, that is kind of funny. but keep your chin up, must suck trying to help both of them, that must mean you are a really nice person. Good luck! OTTA HERE. Link to post Share on other sites
Author WhatAmIDoin Posted June 23, 2005 Author Share Posted June 23, 2005 I just find it wierd that you were created on the same day, and only posted two times. Both of which are, (of course) mine. Who are you then? Come foward... Or was I right Lori? Link to post Share on other sites
Author WhatAmIDoin Posted June 23, 2005 Author Share Posted June 23, 2005 One more thing, my last girl friend, or anyone who I know... will not spell the way that person does. All my friends that "know me" back when have college degrees and wouldn't use ebonics to post. Link to post Share on other sites
outdated Posted June 23, 2005 Share Posted June 23, 2005 The bitterness is strong in this thread... Link to post Share on other sites
greyskies Posted June 23, 2005 Share Posted June 23, 2005 If you think I would go out of my way to conjour up another name to validate what I wrote your looped buddy. :lmao: :lmao: Thats funny I don't care who you are? Even though I don't agree with that person putting your real name on here, and thinking that you should know me better then that. For you to spit my name out is messed up but what ever. I would never try to validate something that I know is absolutely the truth anyway. I am not trying to stir up anything. But just would like you to face reality when it comes to your relationship. I wish you would quit complaining about her. Why complain about something you completely enjoy in the first place. Thats all I'm saying. And go see a doctor about how you turn certain everyday happenings into outrageous falsified stories and completely believe them. Its not normal. Man a few simple changes and you would be all right. To bad you can't take the good advice of an would be friend. Cause then none of this crap would be being posted. I am not that other person!!!! GOT IT! L8ter Link to post Share on other sites
lostinmymind Posted June 23, 2005 Share Posted June 23, 2005 This girl sounds like she has major issues that she needs to workout herself. She's never gonna do it if you are always there to catch her. Don't let her use you, you are better then that! Link to post Share on other sites
WhatShldIDo Posted June 26, 2005 Share Posted June 26, 2005 I have to make a public appology. Lori, a few weeks ago when she dissapeared... it WAS because Mike was supposed to be getting out. She IS getting back together with him, and he IS getting out soon. You were RIGHT I was wrong... Just thought that you would like to know. I am sorry for believing her word over yours. It was all b.s. Sorry. Link to post Share on other sites
greyskies Posted June 26, 2005 Share Posted June 26, 2005 Im so sorry dude, but honestly its the best thing for you man. I guess Im really not sorry. I just hope you will take this time to get into your job and start getting on with your life. You can live a great life if you let that go and I hope you do. I told you from the time I met you that I would never turn my back on you and I wont. Please be strong like I know you can be just dont look back dude. Theres nothing back there worth look back for, you know what Im saying? I know that there is something lacking in your life that makes you succumb yourself to such treatment. Maybe you should search within and find out what ails you. And turn it around so you can have a healthy relationship with someone in the future. I do advice you to stay single for a while and work on self. I dont think starting something new would be wise right now. You have been put through hell and will have to deal with some of your personal issues first. Or the next relationship you have could turn out the same way. Remember I told you that you dont need to have a GF to validate you. Your alright all by yourself. I know everyone likes to have a companion by their side and it gets lonely. Hell if anyone knows that I do. But Im okay with being alone now. You know my belief is (LOVE IS PAIN) but thats just me. There is someone out there for you and you'll find her just be patient. Cause the last thing you want to do is drag all that crap into another relationship. Keep your head up K? You can do this I have total faith in you. GOOD LUCK. Link to post Share on other sites
paradissa1 Posted June 26, 2005 Share Posted June 26, 2005 go get checked by a doc.i'm guessing you and the other guy are not the only one in this love-em-and-leave-em game. Link to post Share on other sites
greyskies Posted June 27, 2005 Share Posted June 27, 2005 Are you talking about? You must not know how to read. Or you just can't understand the situation. I am not involved with any guy so get your story straight before you make false accusations. Thank you Link to post Share on other sites
WhatShldIDo Posted July 1, 2005 Share Posted July 1, 2005 I almost freaked out on her yesterday... I was going to friggin snap. She started playing these games and I was soooo close to just... oh god... Like I called this dude she hates and left a message for him to call a made up person at her number to freak her out.... I was soo pissed. But then I did some research on her and her b'f who's getting out.. I mean coming home tomorrow.... and they deserve each other. They are actually perfect for one another. She doesn't understand the way I live, and I will never understand the way she lives... and her and that dude match like green eggs and ham! Link to post Share on other sites
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