Chris2016 Posted March 20, 2016 Share Posted March 20, 2016 The problem is this. Society does not expect a 35yo guy to be a virgin. What you say has merit but frankly if you are a virgin past 30 then clearly you are incapable of getting a lady into an intimate situation to begin with. I did one time, around 33. Timing, luck, confidence. I'm holding on hope that I can do it again. Link to post Share on other sites
Empire87 Posted March 22, 2016 Share Posted March 22, 2016 The problem is this. Society does not expect a 35yo guy to be a virgin. What you say has merit but frankly if you are a virgin past 30 then clearly you are incapable of getting a lady into an intimate situation to begin with. Then what the heck are you asking about it for? If you don't think you can get a girl into an intimate situation then what's the point of being worried about "can you think of anything worse than a girl noticing your inexperience in the bedroom?" Catch 22. Either you believe that no one can lose their virginity after the age of 30. Or you believe that it's possible and if that's the case, my precious response is valid and relevant. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ZA Dater Posted March 22, 2016 Share Posted March 22, 2016 Then what the heck are you asking about it for? If you don't think you can get a girl into an intimate situation then what's the point of being worried about "can you think of anything worse than a girl noticing your inexperience in the bedroom?" Catch 22. Either you believe that no one can lose their virginity after the age of 30. Or you believe that it's possible and if that's the case, my precious response is valid and relevant. I believe the chances of loosing it after 30 to someone you really like and are attracted to are slim at best. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Empire87 Posted March 22, 2016 Share Posted March 22, 2016 I believe the chances of loosing it after 30 to someone you really like and are attracted to are slim at best. And I believe that your stance on that is factually inaccurate. Theres no such thing as "chances" and "odds are" when it comes to this. Why? Because every single person is individually specific. You could be the most socially inept person in China and one night at the age of 48 you somehow come across the right girl at the right time and wake up the next day in a hotel room naked with her. There's nothing that you can look at and apply to yourself as a valid reason why you can't do something. No one is you. Doesn't matter what magazines say or the Internet or movies, you are the ONLY person in the world that you can vouch for and look at. I believe that the chances of hitting the lottery are so small that I don't bother playing ever. Someone who has never played lottery in their life can spend $1 on 1 ticket and win millions. Doesn't mean a thing. Link to post Share on other sites
kolleamm Posted March 22, 2016 Share Posted March 22, 2016 If people think being a non virgin is an accomplishment then I feel really sorry for them. Link to post Share on other sites
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