Author Verucasalt Posted March 17, 2016 Author Share Posted March 17, 2016 Oh my goodness! What were you hoping to achieve by doing that? I hope you did it gently. She's completely innocent in this mess. Don't get me wrong, I'm all for informing the BS what's happening in their own lives, I just seriously doubt your motivations & what you expected the results to be. Have you spoken to your prescribing doctor about everything that's going on? I'm not saying that your illness is complicit in this mess but it's a very emotional experience & your meds may need adjusting. Keep an eye on yourself & your thought patterns, please! What made me do it was that I was p/o at him and thought it'd make me feel better but overall I do think I did the right thing and I was nothing but respectful to her and nice and I offered more info if she had any more questions.. Yes I did talk to my therapist and it led to my new dx and new meds 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ShatteredLady Posted March 17, 2016 Share Posted March 17, 2016 I'm sure you know this already but just in case... New meds can be a bit hit & miss. Please keep an eye on your mood, thoughts & behavior particularly in the next 4-8 weeks. Link to post Share on other sites
jnel921 Posted March 17, 2016 Share Posted March 17, 2016 Yes I was very cooperative and nice and apologetic You should have left it and his wife well alone. You talked to this guy for three months and nothing came of it. He said he loved you? Talk is cheap. He decided he didn't want to talk to you anymore...get over it. He may have come to his senses and realized he didn't want to take it further and hurt his wife. Sounds like you were stalking him. You need to get to the real reason you are hurting your BF and stop making excuses and self diagnosing yourself with mental illness to excuse your behavior or actions. If you would have called me I would have hung up on you and had a real conversation with my H. Your intention was not to be nice and help. It was to hurt and destroy. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
OneLov Posted March 17, 2016 Share Posted March 17, 2016 He probably panicked and thought your BF would end up telling his wife if he continued contact with you. You are still with BF; what would be the point in blowing up his marriage? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Verucasalt Posted March 17, 2016 Author Share Posted March 17, 2016 You should have left it and his wife well alone. You talked to this guy for three months and nothing came of it. He said he loved you? Talk is cheap. He decided he didn't want to talk to you anymore...get over it. He may have come to his senses and realized he didn't want to take it further and hurt his wife. Sounds like you were stalking him. You need to get to the real reason you are hurting your BF and stop making excuses and self diagnosing yourself with mental illness to excuse your behavior or actions. If you would have called me I would have hung up on you and had a real conversation with my H. Your intention was not to be nice and help. It was to hurt and destroy. Haha first of all I didn't self diagnose my self.. Lol.. Second. Stalking.? We like 3500 miles away and I blocked him then he blocked me.. Lmao.. Whatever Link to post Share on other sites
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