Whats he thinking? Long distance break up (still hurt)

[Zombiekristyy]

Recently, about 3 months ago a guy broke up with me due to him being sent to another state due to his visa. We dated for 4 &1/2 months, i had wanted to make it offical after 3 months but he told me that he wanted to get sponsored first for another 3years then he would make it offical with me, which sucked because we were basically a couple, he met my family, he told his about me (im in Australia and he was from Scotland). Eventually we broke up because he didnt get sponsed to stay so he called it off because 'he didnt want us both to suffer from heartbreak and no psychical contact'. What really hurt me though was he said, 'he didnt come looking for a relationship in the first place, he just came to travel, then he found me.' Which left me hurt. I blocked him, then like a silly girl, messaged him back after and said sorry and that i wanted him back, nothing. Messaged him before new year and asked him, 'do i move on, what are we doing?'. No reply. He then bumped into my mum 1 month later and asked to be her friend on facebook (i do not have facebook, we only have eachother on snapchat). I thought this was odd, but he and her did have a great relationship. Anywho. So apparently they kept in touch for a bit which did bother me because i did want him to have his space but my mother adored him, eventually he stopped replying to her. I know this because she told me and i told her that she needed to stop contacting him. I then messaged him and told him that i still miss him but i miss the old us and that if we leave it as friends it all i want right now only because in reality we cant be together due to his visa sending him to another city. I also told him that i wanted to still keep in touch. Again, no reply. But he was apparently still chatting to my mum (annoying right). Lately he has been watching my snapchat stories and i have been avoiding him (not stalking him on facebook,not seeing what his up too, those sorrs of things) but i miss him so so much, we never had a fight and never did anything wrong to each!

other so i cant hate him. Id like to know, is the no contact rule best right now? He is more often looking at my snapchat stories and they are all positive, do you still believe he misses me, it hurts me for him to see me having fun but again he was the one to call it quits and i was willing to make it work.

[PegNosePete]

Look I'm sorry to say this but if he was interested, he would talk to you. His silence speaks volumes. He is simply not interested in a relationship or even a friendship with you.

 

Yes NC is the best thing you can do now. Block him on FB, snapchat, and every other communication channel you have. Tell your mum you don't want to hear anything about him again.