Seperated Posted March 18, 2016 Share Posted March 18, 2016 I've posted here before. Wife and I seperated a yr and a half ago. Her intention. Leaving was for me to appreciate her. We saw each other for 8 months. I never got serious about getting her back or fixing things. Had a lot go on including finding out that I was depressed most of my life... We both started dating. I felt so guilty after being with someone else and also realized that I cannot love anyone the way I love my wife... I think the fact that I've gotten healthy over the last 6 months has helped a lot with that.. I love her and I want to fix our marriage, I do not care that she was dating . She only kissed someone. The problem is that when I poured my heart out to her and also admitted to being intimate during my dating one person over three weeks this crushed her. I told her all of this about a month ago... She went from not mad but saying it sucks to agreeing to see a movie with me to that not happening and now just getting frustrated with me when I tell her how I feel about her. It's hard to stay away but I am trying my best... What do I do ?? I know she loves me... But she said I hurt her really bad. She started dating first because I told her I wanted to be alone... Honestly, I didn't I just missed her because for three months I didn't see her. She stopped coming around, I'm guessing most due to me not fixing things by then. I also told her that because my son had some Health issues at the time.what do I do to get her back?? I've tried everything 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Satu Posted March 18, 2016 Share Posted March 18, 2016 You can't make her come back to you. She will do her own thinking and act on her own best judgment. It looks like you sleeping with another woman was the deal breaker. Link to post Share on other sites
central Posted March 18, 2016 Share Posted March 18, 2016 You can't undo what's done. You can only move forward. I think the only way to fix things is see if she'll agree to resume dating you - exclusively. Over time (and it will take time), your self-improvement will either win her back, or it won't. If she decides this won't work, you'll have to let her go, and in that case, I'd suggest you file for divorce to make it clear to you both. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted March 18, 2016 Share Posted March 18, 2016 I don't think asking the same question over and over is going to give you any different answers. This is thread number 4 now... You've already had answers and apparently decided your course of action, so why are you asking all over again? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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