Chris2016 Posted March 19, 2016 Share Posted March 19, 2016 (edited) Where do I find forever alone women in real life? Go to reddit forever alone women and boy do I empathize. Are there dating websites? Edited March 19, 2016 by Chris2016 Link to post Share on other sites
Beatles4 Posted March 19, 2016 Share Posted March 19, 2016 Think there single for a reason pal Some will moan there single or want a partner but you will never see them go on dates, or go on a date with you. Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted March 20, 2016 Share Posted March 20, 2016 I guess some of them aren't social and don't go out much, but everyone has to go do grocery shopping and work and all that. So pay attention when you see women by themselves out and about, but look on their finger for a ring first. You could try bookstores and anyplace that might cater to solitary pasttimes. I bet if you hung out in some of your favorite book sections, you might strike up a conversation or two. You might also get involved in animal rescue organizations if you like animal people. Single women often need handymen and that sort of thing too. Of course we all need handymen! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Chris2016 Posted March 20, 2016 Author Share Posted March 20, 2016 Think there single for a reason pal Some will moan there single or want a partner but you will never see them go on dates, or go on a date with you. Damn unicorn! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
MidwestUSA Posted March 20, 2016 Share Posted March 20, 2016 Have you checked a cat shelter? 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Chris2016 Posted March 20, 2016 Author Share Posted March 20, 2016 Have you checked a cat shelter? Yes it was empty. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
MidwestUSA Posted March 20, 2016 Share Posted March 20, 2016 Yes it was empty. Not even any cats? That would be a good thing! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
jay1983 Posted March 20, 2016 Share Posted March 20, 2016 I've never even heard of it. I've been on this forum for 2 years and whenever I hear about a 30+ yr old virgin who's never kissed a girl, it's always a guy. Link to post Share on other sites
scorpiogirl Posted March 20, 2016 Share Posted March 20, 2016 Why do you hang around places like that with people exactly like you? If you want to learn how to make money, do you hang around broke people? If you want to learn to skydive, do you go to people who are afraid of heights? I just read one topic in that forum and it's a bunch of women complaining about the other beautiful women they work with and how they have everything. " She has beautiful skin and hair and nails." Guess what, she doesn't wake up looking perfect. She does things to look like that. She works out, takes care of her body. Same thing for men. So at the end of the day, all these Alone People have commiserated. Then you turn your computer off. And you're still alone. I'm not thin. Far from it. But I want to lose weight, and have been. I want to be healthy, not just thin. So did I go hang around a bunch of fat people sitting on the couch eating doughnuts? No! I went to a woman who weighed even more than I did at one stage but who had lost over half her body weight and is super fit. I also refuse to date a man who wants to sit in the couch every day. I've had relationships with men who are so ripped, and fit and are active. Guess what, they helped me work out. Motivated me. You need to start somewhere but looking for a "FAW" is not that place. What you've done up till now isn't working so try something else. Don't let your aloneness enter a room before you do. Stop thinking about how alone and dejected you are, and focus on the people you're interacting with. So you're awkward the first few times. So what? Just talk to people, men and women. If you have something interesting going on in your life, you'll become more interesting. People are not as scary as some here would like you to believe but it means you need to get out of your comfort zone. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Chris2016 Posted March 20, 2016 Author Share Posted March 20, 2016 Not even any cats? That would be a good thing! Crazy cat lady adopted them all. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Chris2016 Posted March 20, 2016 Author Share Posted March 20, 2016 I've never even heard of it. I've been on this forum for 2 years and whenever I hear about a 30+ yr old virgin who's never kissed a girl, it's always a guy. It's on reddit. Link to post Share on other sites
MidwestUSA Posted March 20, 2016 Share Posted March 20, 2016 Crazy cat lady adopted them all. I only took half of them, I swear! 2 Link to post Share on other sites
jay1983 Posted March 20, 2016 Share Posted March 20, 2016 I took the other half. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Chris2016 Posted March 20, 2016 Author Share Posted March 20, 2016 I don't hang around places like that. I recently came across forever alone women on reddit. On LS it's mainly guys that verbalize it. But to hear women who are FA too is refreshing somehow. I wouldn't want to meet their misery. But would like to connect with their like-mindedness and happy place. One lady there has alopecia. Beautiful person when she puts on a wig and drawn eyebrows--beautiful even without. However without those, she says she is ignored. I like her reality, her honesty. She seems pretty okay with herself. That's who I want to meet. I do a marathon yearly. I run a lot. One of my personal goal is to get a six pack and get ripped, starting at age 40. Just once in my life I want to try to achieve that. So I'm doing circuit/HIIT training also. I'm actually quite social. I don't have a problem socializing with people at meetups. I like interacting and discovering people. So far its been positive experiences. Most of my FB friends are female. People who I know in real life. They're married or just simply friends though. It's just that love romance has been the elusive part of my life. Why do you hang around places like that with people exactly like you? If you want to learn how to make money, do you hang around broke people? If you want to learn to skydive, do you go to people who are afraid of heights? I just read one topic in that forum and it's a bunch of women complaining about the other beautiful women they work with and how they have everything. " She has beautiful skin and hair and nails." Guess what, she doesn't wake up looking perfect. She does things to look like that. She works out, takes care of her body. Same thing for men. So at the end of the day, all these Alone People have commiserated. Then you turn your computer off. And you're still alone. I'm not thin. Far from it. But I want to lose weight, and have been. I want to be healthy, not just thin. So did I go hang around a bunch of fat people sitting on the couch eating doughnuts? No! I went to a woman who weighed even more than I did at one stage but who had lost over half her body weight and is super fit. I also refuse to date a man who wants to sit in the couch every day. I've had relationships with men who are so ripped, and fit and are active. Guess what, they helped me work out. Motivated me. You need to start somewhere but looking for a "FAW" is not that place. What you've done up till now isn't working so try something else. Don't let your aloneness enter a room before you do. Stop thinking about how alone and dejected you are, and focus on the people you're interacting with. So you're awkward the first few times. So what? Just talk to people, men and women. If you have something interesting going on in your life, you'll become more interesting. People are not as scary as some here would like you to believe but it means you need to get out of your comfort zone. Link to post Share on other sites
BronzeAgeJaeger217 Posted March 23, 2016 Share Posted March 23, 2016 I've never even heard of it. I've been on this forum for 2 years and whenever I hear about a 30+ yr old virgin who's never kissed a girl, it's always a guy. Well I've felt that way for a few years now, women are far less at risk than men are at reaching over the age of 30 without ever having a relationship before, heck even 25, probably because women don't have to approach and be the initiators Link to post Share on other sites
elaine567 Posted March 23, 2016 Share Posted March 23, 2016 Well I've felt that way for a few years now, women are far less at risk than men are at reaching over the age of 30 without ever having a relationship before, heck even 25, probably because women don't have to approach and be the initiators So what do you think happens to the women, no men approach? ...and would it be wise for a woman to advertise the fact she is a virgin looking for a man on an internet forum... Link to post Share on other sites
BronzeAgeJaeger217 Posted March 23, 2016 Share Posted March 23, 2016 So what do you think happens to the women, no men approach? ...and would it be wise for a woman to advertise the fact she is a virgin looking for a man on an internet forum... Well I've stated before, maybe there are women out there like that who exist, but maybe they advertise it much less than men do Link to post Share on other sites
Author Chris2016 Posted March 24, 2016 Author Share Posted March 24, 2016 Interesting read on reddit FAW, some don't get compliment/attention/whatever as someone more attractive/bbbly. Same here. I look at grirl. Girl look away. No second look. Sh*t! Oh well.l. I guess next time I see someone not get compliment, door hold, etc. I'll try my luck, Hi I'm Chad Thundercock. Link to post Share on other sites
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