P88Z Posted March 21, 2016 Share Posted March 21, 2016 Today I`m a 27 year old male, healthy, handsome, smart and all other good qualities I can adhere too. Only problem is that I have never had an intimate relationship with a woman, I had some brushes with it though, but it never came to sex. So nowadays I Tinder to find a good woman, with more and more success. I have a lot of matches and I can get dates on a fairly regular basis (1 date per 1,5 week). But here is the deal breaker: I get really anxious and restless of using my smart phone. Even if I just use my phone a few times a day I still have this. This reallyinterferes with my ability to enjoy dating woman and bond with woman. And that has the effect that I won`t get intimate with them, which I regret. So I`m really thinking about laying off my smart phone, and from experience I know I feel much better without using one. But here`s my dilemma: - Keep using the smart phone and keep getting dates, but still be anxious? - Feeling good about myself, but not having this much of dates and have to find dates the old fashioned way? By the way I don`t have a fear of woman or a fear or rejection, I just get overwhelmed if I get to much information and that just interferes with all other aspects of my life also. So it really seems and easy one, but I don`t like going out and I don`t know how to meet more new woman on a regular basis otherwise. Thanks for all the answers!! Link to post Share on other sites
GunslingerRoland Posted March 21, 2016 Share Posted March 21, 2016 Sorry I don't understand this at all. What does your smart phone have to do with your dates? Do you mean you are so addicted to checking it that you can't enjoy a date? Or do you mean you get anxious after the date, when they contact you? Link to post Share on other sites
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