Tmillsismyheart1 Posted March 22, 2016 Share Posted March 22, 2016 We have been doing this for over 20+ years, and no matter what we always end up back together. I love everything about him. The way he smiles, smells, sounds, his touch, his demeanor. He is my Sunshine! However, I was a fly on a wall when he describes me. What does he say? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Babsinhealing Posted March 22, 2016 Share Posted March 22, 2016 We have been doing this for over 20+ years, and no matter what we always end up back together. I love everything about him. The way he smiles, smells, sounds, his touch, his demeanor. He is my Sunshine! However, I was a fly on a wall when he describes me. What does he say? 20+ years... Wow! I hope he has tons of positive things to say about you. With that many years there has to be some emotional connection! Hard to say though... I've been educated on this forum that men can walk away after YEARS and not even blink an eye. Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
13Hearts Posted March 22, 2016 Share Posted March 22, 2016 We have been doing this for over 20+ years, and no matter what we always end up back together. I love everything about him. The way he smiles, smells, sounds, his touch, his demeanor. He is my Sunshine! However, I was a fly on a wall when he describes me. What does he say? What? What did he say?? Link to post Share on other sites
Ophelia25 Posted March 22, 2016 Share Posted March 22, 2016 I'm not sure if I find this incredibly hopeful or deeply sad. I have loved him for 25 years. Affair for 8. He keeps saying it will never end, then tries to end it. What does he he feel? Link to post Share on other sites
imperfectangel Posted March 22, 2016 Share Posted March 22, 2016 I'm not sure if I find this incredibly hopeful or deeply sad. I have loved him for 25 years. Affair for 8. He keeps saying it will never end, then tries to end it. What does he he feel? Only he can tell you that. Mine has just ended after 18 years. Seems like he just woke up one day and was done. He's ignored me since January and it hurts. 20 years is nothing it seems. Link to post Share on other sites
sandylee1 Posted March 22, 2016 Share Posted March 22, 2016 We have been doing this for over 20+ years, and no matter what we always end up back together. I love everything about him. The way he smiles, smells, sounds, his touch, his demeanor. He is my Sunshine! However, I was a fly on a wall when he describes me. What does he say? I think you'll remain a fly on the wall forever with this guy. 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Bufo Posted March 22, 2016 Share Posted March 22, 2016 I hate to sound like a Donald Downer, but the answer may be "not much". I suspect that during 20 years he has learned to comprtmentalize his relationship with you. That relationship is one part of his life, and the rest of it is in another compartment. He enjoys both parts but keeps them separate. Most OM I've known have spoken very little if at all about their OWs. Just not part of their lives they share. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Lady2163 Posted March 23, 2016 Share Posted March 23, 2016 I felt a bit like the title of the post. I could never get enough in and out of the bedroom of the mm. I wish we had the chance to date and be a couple. Neither of us is/was super mushy, but id wonder if we would have had a chance. No regrets, I gotta believe he is happy. Link to post Share on other sites
Recommended Posts