Littlesunshine23 Posted March 22, 2016 Share Posted March 22, 2016 Hey looking for some advice/guidance My ex and I broke up about 5 months ago, we have a 11month old daughter. The thing is he has moved on to another woman, she seems decent so I've heard, the only thing is she ended her previous relationship about 2month ago as she didn't want anything serious, but now she's with my ex who has two kids. Should I let her be involved in my daughters life or is it going to be a mistake? I don't know if their relationship is going to last and I'm scared it will be a mistake letting her in my daughters life. Any advice would be appreciatedz Thank you Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted March 22, 2016 Share Posted March 22, 2016 Hey looking for some advice/guidance My ex and I broke up about 5 months ago, we have a 11month old daughter. The thing is he has moved on to another woman, she seems decent so I've heard, the only thing is she ended her previous relationship about 2month ago as she didn't want anything serious, but now she's with my ex who has two kids. Should I let her be involved in my daughters life or is it going to be a mistake? I don't know if their relationship is going to last and I'm scared it will be a mistake letting her in my daughters life. Any advice would be appreciatedz Thank you Do you have a choice in the matter? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
CarrieT Posted March 22, 2016 Share Posted March 22, 2016 Please look at the bright side. You knew - inevitably - that when you split from your child's father that he would find someone else. And you will too, some day. What does this mean for your child? That there will - hopefully - be more people in her life to show her love. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Littlesunshine23 Posted March 22, 2016 Author Share Posted March 22, 2016 Yes i knew this but I don't want her in her life if it's not gonna be permanent. I don't want woman in and out her life. Link to post Share on other sites
CarrieT Posted March 22, 2016 Share Posted March 22, 2016 Yes i knew this but I don't want her in her life if it's not gonna be permanent. I don't want woman in and out her life. Who can know the future? There is no way for you to determine is a relationship is going to be permanent, is there? I'm sure when you were making the baby that you are so concerned about now, you thought *that* relationship was going to be permanent, didn't you? Would you have procreated if you thought the relationship would end? 3 Link to post Share on other sites
sandylee1 Posted March 22, 2016 Share Posted March 22, 2016 At 11 months I wouldn't worry too much. She's still a baby. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
mrs rubble Posted March 22, 2016 Share Posted March 22, 2016 Yes i knew this but I don't want her in her life if it's not gonna be permanent. I don't want woman in and out her life. It really doesn't matter on how many woman your ex may go through, as long as none of them treat your daughter badly.......it only takes one evil person to do damage. Link to post Share on other sites
darkmoon Posted March 22, 2016 Share Posted March 22, 2016 (edited) postpone it until they actually marry, if they are so in love, then you will have to put up with it, but not before "with" sounds a bit vague to me, 2 months is not a long time Edited March 22, 2016 by darkmoon Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted March 23, 2016 Share Posted March 23, 2016 Hey looking for some advice/guidance My ex and I broke up about 5 months ago, we have a 11month old daughter. The thing is he has moved on to another woman, she seems decent so I've heard, the only thing is she ended her previous relationship about 2month ago as she didn't want anything serious, but now she's with my ex who has two kids. Should I let her be involved in my daughters life or is it going to be a mistake? I don't know if their relationship is going to last and I'm scared it will be a mistake letting her in my daughters life. Any advice would be appreciatedz Thank you Not right now. They haven't been together that long so why should this woman be actively involved in your child's life? I think you have a right to meet her and talk to her before she ever meets your daughter. Your daughter is so young, not even a year old yet and needs a lot of care, is this woman actually ready to be involved? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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