I think my LDR girlfriend might have cheated on me

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So I met my girlfriend while i was living in Europe (i'm from Canada) during an exchange. I'm back home now so we're trying long distance.

 

Back when we were both together in Europe, she took a trip with her friend (f) while i went back home for christmas. She said that their other friend(m) met up with them for a few nights on their trip because he was also travelling. I didn't think much of it at the time.

 

Now two months after that trip was over and we were already trying long distance she told me she had a 'secret' to tell me. The while they met up with their friend(m) they tried weed for the first time and they all went back to the guy's hotel room (1 bed) for the night. And that she was thinking that they were going to have a three way that night.

 

I flipped out when she told me this and things haven't been the same since because i am constantly paranoid that she isn't telling me the whole story from that night. When we talk on skype she looks visibly nervous and possibly guilty. Especially if the conversation starts to head towards her trip or her friend(m). I don't know if it is my own insecurities that are convincing me there is more she's not telling me and I simply refuse to believe her, or if she told me a partial truth to gauge my reaction and determine if she could tell me what really happened.

 

I didn't handle the information well when she told me. And I have talked (argued) with her about this for like a month now. I don't know what i should do. I've already bought flights and hotel to see her in a month from now.

 

Please any advice would help me.

[lychee]

If you cant trust her ..thats rat poison for your online relationship.

You guys are far, no trust = danger