MadKurlz Posted June 15, 2005 Share Posted June 15, 2005 What do men find attractive in women? What pulls you guys in? Link to post Share on other sites
amandine Posted June 15, 2005 Share Posted June 15, 2005 A beautiful body is a powerful thing. A beautiful heart even moreso. Link to post Share on other sites
tanbark813 Posted June 15, 2005 Share Posted June 15, 2005 1. Blue eyes 2. Long, wavy hair 3. The ability to sing 4. A great smile 5. Big boobs 6. Not being obnoxious 7. Sexy, but not slutty, attire Link to post Share on other sites
lostinmymind Posted June 16, 2005 Share Posted June 16, 2005 Eyes, smile, cute and innocent. Most important is personality, she's gotta be a kind person. A hot girl will get my attention, but a girl who is just cute and natural in every way could definitely melt my heart. Link to post Share on other sites
Marshbear Posted June 16, 2005 Share Posted June 16, 2005 Her smell, taste, personality, looks, body. It short, all things about her makes her sexy and desirable. P.S. It also helps if I'm in love with her. Link to post Share on other sites
UCFKevin Posted June 16, 2005 Share Posted June 16, 2005 Intelligence. If I see a hot girl who acts like a moron, I simply see a hot girl and move on. If I see a hot girl who seems like she has her act together, I see sexiness and potential. Link to post Share on other sites
sarah12 Posted June 16, 2005 Share Posted June 16, 2005 Originally posted by UCFKevin Intelligence. If I see a hot girl who acts like a moron, I simply see a hot girl and move on. If I see a hot girl who seems like she has her act together, I see sexiness and potential. Unfortunately, most guys assume that hot girls are not intelligent. Link to post Share on other sites
moimeme Posted June 16, 2005 Share Posted June 16, 2005 Unfortunately, most guys assume that hot girls are not intelligent. And vice versa. Link to post Share on other sites
Naive Posted June 16, 2005 Share Posted June 16, 2005 Originally posted by sarah12 Unfortunately, most guys assume that hot girls are not intelligent. Yeah but those men are ignorant!!! Link to post Share on other sites
sarah12 Posted June 16, 2005 Share Posted June 16, 2005 Originally posted by moimeme And vice versa. I hadn't really thought about it like that. I suppose it's cause Ive been in a university town for too long... Link to post Share on other sites
BrotherAaron Posted June 16, 2005 Share Posted June 16, 2005 What makes me notice a girl, I must admit, is driven by carnal desires. A girl with something visually appealing to me (girls know this well enough) will get my attention. From there, it is up to her personality to keep it. So, beyond tits & ass, a woman is sexy if she can: Hold a conversation, and contribute. I like learning about people, so if she can tell interesting stories (in other words, tell me about herself without boring me), then that's good. A woman with tact, class, and wit can get my heart beating a bit faster. Add a good sense of humor, some spontaneity, education (not necesarrily formal - just aware of the world), and the ability to give good signals (in order to lead my thoughts, somewhat) and you have... ...a non-existant but wonderful to fantasize about sexy woman. Link to post Share on other sites
ReluctantRomeo Posted June 16, 2005 Share Posted June 16, 2005 Passion, compassion, fun, intelligence and good conversation. Good breasts and musical talent help too. Originally posted by sarah12 Unfortunately, most guys assume that hot girls are not intelligent. Yeah, I've heard a lot of dumb girls who think they're hot whine on and on about this Link to post Share on other sites
strange love Posted June 16, 2005 Share Posted June 16, 2005 Ok here is the unexpected check list 1. Gap between two front teeth (super sexy) 2. full pouty lips 3. ethnic beauty 4. Curves 5. The right clothing 6. A bit eccentric, a bit odd..etc 7. Chatty I'll add more in later... Link to post Share on other sites
fundamental Posted June 16, 2005 Share Posted June 16, 2005 a pretty face, a nice butt, a caring heart, and the way she carries herself. Link to post Share on other sites
sarah12 Posted June 16, 2005 Share Posted June 16, 2005 Originally posted by ReluctantRomeo Yeah, I've heard a lot of dumb girls who think they're hot whine on and on about this Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted June 16, 2005 Share Posted June 16, 2005 Originally posted by sarah12 Unfortunately, most guys assume that hot girls are not intelligent. the majority of them are not smart. just like the majority of good lookin' dudes are not smart either. most people are of average intelligence just like most people are of average looks. Link to post Share on other sites
Opium Posted June 16, 2005 Share Posted June 16, 2005 Originally posted by tanbark813 1. Blue eyes 2. Long, wavy hair 3. The ability to sing 4. A great smile 5. Big boobs 6. Not being obnoxious 7. Sexy, but not slutty, attire Basically in a nut shell: Carmen Electra Link to post Share on other sites
westernxer Posted June 16, 2005 Share Posted June 16, 2005 If I like her, she's sexy. Link to post Share on other sites
sarah12 Posted June 16, 2005 Share Posted June 16, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale most people are of average intelligence just like most people are of average looks. I suppose you could generalize that. I guess I just happen to know quite a few exceptions amongst my friends (it's a general consensus among men that these women are smart and beautiful, not just my opinion). Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted June 16, 2005 Share Posted June 16, 2005 Originally posted by sarah12 I suppose you could generalize that. I guess I just happen to know quite a few exceptions amongst my friends (it's a general consensus among men that these women are smart and beautiful, not just my opinion). sure there are exceptions but in most of the large companies I've worked for the most attractive women usually worked as receptionists and secretaries (oh, sorry administrative assistants). now i have seen a few very attractive women who had much higher positions but it was more rare. lets say 10% of the overall population is very attractive and 10% of the overall population is very smart. if you do the math it means that 1% of the overall population is both very attractive and very smart. Link to post Share on other sites
sarah12 Posted June 16, 2005 Share Posted June 16, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale lets say 10% of the overall population is very attractive and 10% of the overall population is very smart. if you do the math it means that 1% of the overall population is both very attractive and very smart. That's because you work in finance/IT, which is a predominantly male field. Look at the medical profession - over here, half of all doctors and dentists are women, and most optometrists are women. I believe the law profession has similar stats. And these people are not ugly, trust me. Anyways, I agree that only a small percentage of the population is both beautiful and smart, and these people tend to attract each other (as friends or other..). So you don't usually just see one..they tend to travel together IMO. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted June 16, 2005 Share Posted June 16, 2005 Originally posted by sarah12 half of all doctors and dentists are women, and most optometrists are women. I believe the law profession has similar stats. And these people are not ugly, trust me. the above fields are not indicative of the occupations in general. Overall, there are not many doctors, optometrists, dentists and lawyers. There may be at most 2 million adults in these 4 professions alone. And there are about 150 million employed adults. Do the math and approx 1.3% of the employed adult population fall in those four fields. Anyways, I agree that only a small percentage of the population is both beautiful and smart, and these people tend to attract each other (as friends or other..). So you don't usually just see one..they tend to travel together IMO. at least we agree on something SARAH12, sheesh Link to post Share on other sites
FolderWife Posted June 16, 2005 Share Posted June 16, 2005 Gosh...most women are sexy! (from a woman's point of view) I have a friend who's quick tempered...and her nose is a little big. But the things she says, the way she smiles and laughs...the way she moves...she's a super sexy woman. I have another friend who's plus sized. But she has the sexiest smile, and the sexiest facial expressions, and a sexy laugh...and the way she sits is sexy. I have another friend, who's 5'2, and a mother of two. There's nothing extreme about her, but sometimes, the way she sits, or her facial expression, or the way she's standing, or walking, or talking...she's sexy as all get out. Another friend of mine is drop dead beautiful. She's classy...and she has it all. And she's just sexy all the way around...she's textbook sexy. The sexiest woman that I've ever met, however, I couldn't tell you why she was so sexy. But good grief she oozed sex. She wasn't slutty, or skanky. She was a classy woman. She moved with so much sexy it's crazy. I've been told that I'm sexy, but I just don't see it. I think Angelina Jolie is the sexiest woman alive...but not when she's trying to be sexy...she's sexy when she's natural. When she's laughing, or grinning really big, she is so hot. I'm a woman, though, so I can't tell you from a man's perspective...oh, and I'm not gay Link to post Share on other sites
sarah12 Posted June 16, 2005 Share Posted June 16, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale Do the math and approx 1.3% of the employed adult population fall in those four fields. OK alpha, I did say that it is a small percentage, but they exist. I guess I don't personally know anyone who isn't educated with a university degree, and most of them have gone beyond that -- not to sound like a snob or anything but that's just the way things work out when you're in school for so long. Among these friends I can't think of a single girl who isn't damn sexy (again, not just IMO). So I guess you just gotta roll with the right people, cause then it'll seem more like 80% of the adult population is attractive. at least we agree on something SARAH12, sheesh Link to post Share on other sites
ReluctantRomeo Posted June 17, 2005 Share Posted June 17, 2005 Originally posted by sarah12 I guess I don't personally know anyone who isn't educated with a university degree, and most of them have gone beyond that -- not to sound like a snob or anything but that's just the way things work out when you're in school for so long. Among these friends I can't think of a single girl who isn't damn sexy (again, not just IMO). So I guess you just gotta roll with the right people, cause then it'll seem more like 80% of the adult population is attractive. OK Sarah, time to stop laughing at you and help you out a little here. My profession means that most of the people I work with directly have several degrees. And I do think there's a positive correlation between intelligence and attractiveness - both in terms of packaging and in terms of how well one looks after ones body. In fact, I would say that easily 80% of the women I work with fall into the "attractive" or "stunningly attractive" categories. And 2 of the Juliets paid their way through college by being underwear and swimsuit models. Want me to get you an IT job with us, Alpha? Link to post Share on other sites
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