He eats bugs!!!

[jamie]

I just found out a few days ago that my boyfriend secretly belongs to a gourmet bug eating internet club. This really disgusts me and now the whole idea of being intimate with him makes me queezy. I don't know how to tell him this because I was not supposed to be snooping on his computer while he was out. Now I wish I had never known about this.

 

Is there any hope left?

[Tony T]

Tell him you saw something on one of those Survivor TV shows about people eating bugs. Ask him if he would eat bugs to win money? Then ask him if he's ever eaten any bugs himself? That will open things up for you to tell him just how much that bugs you.

 

I'll tell you, for myself I really don't think I could handle a mate who ate bugs on a regular basis...gourmet or regular variety.

 

This is probably going to bug the hell out of you until you talk to him. Do it today.

[ashesmum]

How about one time after kissing him, saying it tasted weird. like dirt or something. Ask him if there's anything weird he's done. Find news on the internet about bug eating and let him see it and how you feel about it. Give me your email and I'll email something to you about it that way he wouldn't know how you got it. I don't blame you, I would be having any oral fun with him after knowing that. Good luck!

I just found out a few days ago that my boyfriend secretly belongs to a gourmet bug eating internet club. This really disgusts me and now the whole idea of being intimate with him makes me queezy. I don't know how to tell him this because I was not supposed to be snooping on his computer while he was out. Now I wish I had never known about this. Is there any hope left?

[JustAGirl]

How about making him have some gum b4 doing anything oral with him?

 

After all, he's got quite an original hobby... pretty admirable quality...

 

bugs are just protein after all... but i'd use lots of gum, and maybe make him brush his teeth n stuff... u shd definitely somehow get on the topic n discuss it

 

hey - maybe he'll get u interested & u'll become a bug eater too ?

I just found out a few days ago that my boyfriend secretly belongs to a gourmet bug eating internet club. This really disgusts me and now the whole idea of being intimate with him makes me queezy. I don't know how to tell him this because I was not supposed to be snooping on his computer while he was out. Now I wish I had never known about this. Is there any hope left?

[Miss Mojo]

...just imagine - you would never have to kill a fly or a cockroach or a cricket or bed bugs...just keep him away from the plants.

 

subtle will do it - tell him his breath smells like a grasshopper, or say, "hon, is that a leg stuck on your chin?"

 

seriously though, what kind of bugs does he eat? witchety grubs and stuff? people actually do eat bugs like that. in some cultures, it is considered a delicacy. wow, i never knew such a club existed.

 

there's also the chance that he doesn't eat gourmet bugs, but is a member because he finds it funny or interesting.

 

i don't blame you for being disgusted when it comes to intimacy though. you're still at the stage where you don't know if he does eat them or not.

 

just tell him you hopped on the computer the other night to surf the net, and came across it. is this web site stored in favourites? if it is, that would be really easy to come by. sheesh, if i came across a site like on someones computer, i'd think, "whatha???!!" and probably look myself. not to snoop, but sheer curiousity - it is a weird site!

 

let us know how you go, and good luck!