fastasleep Posted June 16, 2005 Share Posted June 16, 2005 so i met an amazing girl. we dated had a great relationship. she had to take a trip while we were dating. this trip was about a month and a half before she was to leave before to take a new job out of state. we discussed it and i told her i didn't want to break up but it was the best for the both of us. we are both young it just made sense to move on. so we date for the remaining month she is in town, and she asked me to go with her to move her in. so i did, i mean i love the girl. a few weeks pass away from each other. i freak out and tell her i miss and want to do whatever to be with her. she says forget about me. i found out through the grapevine when she went on her trip (before she moved away) she met someone hooked up and continued to correspond, planned to break up with me so they could be together. i want to make her suffer. just right out and tell me everything. how do i do this without revealing my source. what a sob story huh. Link to post Share on other sites
Author fastasleep Posted June 16, 2005 Author Share Posted June 16, 2005 oh and i contacted her the other day to tell i was sorry for freaking out and we shouldn't speak to each other for a few months and she freaked out and said you can call me whenever you want. she is going to get it. i am not going to hurt her at all, i just want her to spill her guts. Link to post Share on other sites
ReluctantRomeo Posted June 16, 2005 Share Posted June 16, 2005 First off, is the grapevine source reliable? Someone without an axe to grind and a witness you trust? Be sure of this, since you don't want to play the bastard on a nice girl. If you're sure, here's my advice: don't contact her, and alternate unavailable and offhand when she rings you. Don't engage emotionally. Sounds like she is still at the stage where this will drive her wild. Link to post Share on other sites
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