I am very, very, VERY attracted to someone I maybe "shouldn't be" attracted too

[whichwayisup]

It is a common trait for the OM/OW to consider themselves as a rescuer of the one who is in the marriage. And a thought (in their mind) that seems to drive or excuse the OM/OW in their quest.

 

 

I saw a banner on someone's FB. It read: God will never bring you someone else's husband. You could replace this saying with: God will never bring you someone else's spouse.

 

 

Imo, you have been a victim of fantasizing in your mind - about your sister in law. The mind is where these things begin.

 

 

Hopefully this will help you to change course, and save everyone heartache.

It's not his sister in law, it's his niece, but not blood niece. His sister's husband's child aka sister's step daughter.