Insights on dating gemini men?

[hugsandkisses]

So i started seeing this Gemini. We hit it off right off the bat, there was definitely chemistry. He is super hot, at first I liked him only because he was just simply very attractive, of course he shares the same humor as mine so that was a plus, but I didn't think much of it, so after a couple drinks and a fun banter, we ended up making out in his car and I invited him up to my place. We fooled around, he didn't bring protection and I having not had sex in a year, didn't care to have condoms just laying around either, so we cuddled and just fell asleep. He texted me the next day, we continued texting and then the day after he asked me when he could see me again. We set up a date for that weekend, and actually spent the entire weekend together (brunch, shooting range....all the fun stuff, and we ended up having sex). He said it was a while since he had such a nice weekend. And I guess this is when I start feeling more towards him, more than just physical attraction. So last night, I drove to see him and we cuddled and watch Netflix, ended up talking with him until 2am about life, the topics we discussed were pretty heavy (especially for two people that just know each other for a bit more than a week), he is a bit more realistic than I am (i'm an optimist and I choose to look at the bright side of every situation). So I felt like that was the first time we discussed something that isn't quite lighthearted.

 

So I read about gemini and people say to avoid heavy conversations? Is that true? But isn't that a part of getting to know each other more? Everything is going so well now, and I know you might say it's moving too fast but I honestly at this point don't care if it is indeed moving too fast (in the past I have held back and took things slow but that didn't get me anywhere either so now I'm just going with the flow and what feels right). But any insights about gemini and keeping it lighthearted?

[Sunberry]

So i started seeing this Gemini. We hit it off right off the bat, there was definitely chemistry. He is super hot, at first I liked him only because he was just simply very attractive, of course he shares the same humor as mine so that was a plus, but I didn't think much of it, so after a couple drinks and a fun banter, we ended up making out in his car and I invited him up to my place. We fooled around, he didn't bring protection and I having not had sex in a year, didn't care to have condoms just laying around either, so we cuddled and just fell asleep. He texted me the next day, we continued texting and then the day after he asked me when he could see me again. We set up a date for that weekend, and actually spent the entire weekend together (brunch, shooting range....all the fun stuff, and we ended up having sex). He said it was a while since he had such a nice weekend. And I guess this is when I start feeling more towards him, more than just physical attraction. So last night, I drove to see him and we cuddled and watch Netflix, ended up talking with him until 2am about life, the topics we discussed were pretty heavy (especially for two people that just know each other for a bit more than a week), he is a bit more realistic than I am (i'm an optimist and I choose to look at the bright side of every situation). So I felt like that was the first time we discussed something that isn't quite lighthearted.

 

So I read about gemini and people say to avoid heavy conversations? Is that true? But isn't that a part of getting to know each other more? Everything is going so well now, and I know you might say it's moving too fast but I honestly at this point don't care if it is indeed moving too fast (in the past I have held back and took things slow but that didn't get me anywhere either so now I'm just going with the flow and what feels right). But any insights about gemini and keeping it lighthearted?

 

Dude, there are SO many more factors that go into astrology and pinpointing their personality. Their sun sign (with him it's Gemini) is just a general explanation of the person. You need a moon sign and a rising sign as well for a detailed personality of the person and THAT requires not only his birth day, but the time he was born, as well as the location.

 

Best friend is a Gemini and we talk deeply about stuff all the time, but like I said before, there's so much more into pinpointing a personlity than just their Sun sign.

 

I wouldn't rely so heavily on astrology either. I only use it as a means to have fun (with friends or maybe a celebrity crush), but I don't necessarily use it as a end all say all to how I may run a relationship or a fortune teller into how the person is going to act. It sounds like he likes you and his having a nice time. Just continue to be yourself and you should be okay. Try not to overthink things as well, that will get ya. Go with the flow and have fun!

[d0nnivain]

My advice also is not to rely on astrology as a measure of anything.

 

Interact with him on a personal, individual level. Have fun.

[hugsandkisses]

The only reason why I even open this thread is because as though it doesn't seem like anything has changed, I don't know why I woke up this morning feeling uneasy. Like I mentioned, this guy has a pretty different outlook in life than I do, and we had this discussion about how he feels like life is unfair sometimes, and I told him that life is never fair and I choose to accept it as it is and do my best with whatever it is life throws at me, so then I don't have to live with any regrets (the discussion went on for hours), then we talked about past relationships and him and I both got hurt pretty badly, etc. Pretty heavy stuff. Don't know why I just have an uneasy feeling waking up today that maybe I might have shared too much too soon, and that I'm scared that might have scared him off. As I was leaving his house last night, he told me to drive safe and text me when I get home, which I did, but it was 2:30 when i got home so I was sure he passed out. This morning he texted me back saying he was out as soon as the light was off. I didn't text him back. Hours later I sent him a random text, just telling him about a neighborhood he should consider as he is thinking about moving. Then a couple texts after but nothing much. Usually when I don't text back he texts me again and keeps the conversation going throughout the day. Today, not so much. He texted me last (a text that doesn't necessarily need a response) and since then we haven't talked. Maybe I'm overthinking it. But I feel like there is a slight change. I hope I'm wrong.

[Michelle ma Belle]

The only reason why I even open this thread is because as though it doesn't seem like anything has changed, I don't know why I woke up this morning feeling uneasy. Like I mentioned, this guy has a pretty different outlook in life than I do, and we had this discussion about how he feels like life is unfair sometimes, and I told him that life is never fair and I choose to accept it as it is and do my best with whatever it is life throws at me, so then I don't have to live with any regrets (the discussion went on for hours), then we talked about past relationships and him and I both got hurt pretty badly, etc. Pretty heavy stuff. Don't know why I just have an uneasy feeling waking up today that maybe I might have shared too much too soon, and that I'm scared that might have scared him off. As I was leaving his house last night, he told me to drive safe and text me when I get home, which I did, but it was 2:30 when i got home so I was sure he passed out. This morning he texted me back saying he was out as soon as the light was off. I didn't text him back. Hours later I sent him a random text, just telling him about a neighborhood he should consider as he is thinking about moving. Then a couple texts after but nothing much. Usually when I don't text back he texts me again and keeps the conversation going throughout the day. Today, not so much. He texted me last (a text that doesn't necessarily need a response) and since then we haven't talked. Maybe I'm overthinking it. But I feel like there is a slight change. I hope I'm wrong.

 

You are over thinking things hun. Relax.

[smackie9]

Too early to have those heavy conversations regardless of sign. It's better to just enjoy their company, enjoy the here and now. Don't be a downer....no one needs to yack about abusive relationships, politics, death and all that other crap. Life is too short.

[hugsandkisses]

Too early to have those heavy conversations regardless of sign. It's better to just enjoy their company, enjoy the here and now. Don't be a downer....no one needs to yack about abusive relationships, politics, death and all that other crap. Life is too short.

 

That's why I feel like there was a slight change. Idk. He also did just text me since we have plans on hanging out with my friends on Friday AND Saturday, asking what the plans are, but he didn't seem too enthusiastic about it like he was last week. I told him to be open with communications, I don't want to force anything on him, he said it's just "all the driving that ends up being exhausting". So friday we were gonna double date, and Sat my friends are all going out to a bar in the city. I told him he could stay over and spend saturday with me before going out, so he wouldn't have to drive back and forth. He said "OK, I will let you know what works best"

I remember just last week he told me that he took 4 days off from work and that he has no plans so he would love to hang out with me, and now this. I should have known better not to open up so quickly. Silly me.

[Satu]

Todays Gemini Horoscope:

 

"Today you will/will not, meet a beautiful/not beautiful man/woman who will/will not make a strong/no impression on you."

[hugsandkisses]

Todays Gemini Horoscope:

 

"Today you will/will not, meet a beautiful/not beautiful man/woman who will/will not make a strong/no impression on you."

 

Gemini and the twins in them. Smh. I'm probably in for a lot of trouble and heartache. Maybe it's not too late to get out now.

[Emilia]

Astrology is fake, it's like superstition. It encourages confirmation bias https://www.sciencedaily.com/terms/confirmation_bias.htm

[joseb]

The reason horoscopes work is that they will always be right some of the time.

 

Yes you should avoid having heavy conversations with this guy, not because of the time of the year he was born, but because of the (small) amount of time you have known him.

[hugsandkisses]

The reason horoscopes work is that they will always be right some of the time.

 

Yes you should avoid having heavy conversations with this guy, not because of the time of the year he was born, but because of the (small) amount of time you have known him.

 

Is there anyway to save this? Now that it's already happened?

[joseb]

Is there anyway to save this? Now that it's already happened?

 

Yes. Stop having serious conversations. Especially via text.

And double dating/meeting friends after a week?

That seems crazy early and a lot of pressure. Whose idea was that?

[hugsandkisses]

Yes. Stop having serious conversations. Especially via text.

And double dating/meeting friends after a week?

That seems crazy early and a lot of pressure. Whose idea was that?

 

Mine. I didn't think much about it, i told him that it wasn't like a formal introduction to my friends, so don't sweat it and if he doesn't feel comfortable he doesn't have to go, which he said he had no problems with. The double date, not sure if it's appropriate to call that. So I'm setting up my roommate with a friend of mine, and originally it was just gonna be the three of us. And then i though, ok, so if they hit it off, I don't want to be the third wheel, hey, let me bring this guy im seeing, we'd just all hang out. About the hang out with my friends on Saturday, when he told me that he has no plans for the 4 day he takes off from work, i told him hey me and my friends are going out, would u like to come? And he said yes.

The whole thing about this guy from the beginning is so NOT me and so untraditional in so many ways. I know that. But because I have been burned so many times in the past with guys that I play by the rules so this time I pretty much said **** it, I will do what I want and if it doesnt work out so be it.

[ilovemefirst]

Go slow..dont overthink...if u overthink, u end up pushing them away..even if you dont show him that ur that into him...they feel the vibes..just enjoy it and focus on other things as well. Balance is key..alll rest will fall in place

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[hugsandkisses]

Go slow..dont overthink...if u overthink, u end up pushing them away..even if you dont show him that ur that into him...they feel the vibes..just enjoy it and focus on other things as well. Balance is key..alll rest will fall in place

!

 

I would agree with you, but in this case with this guy, things are a bit different. So it started off as us hooking up on the first date. Ha. Can't do anything to change that now, and I don't even regret it. It was a great time. Didn't expect him to talk to me after, kinda expected him to ghost, but he texted me, so we started talking more, then he asked me out on a second date. So from the beginning we were pretty open with each other about how he feels about girls playing games, about waiting for who to texts who first, and how he likes the fact that I don't seem to play those silly games (because I pretty much don't care at this point because every guy i have dated seem to always find a way to hurt me). But then again, I'm freaking out myself as to how fast this is going. I need to slow down. For sure.

[Gaeta]

I am currently dating a Gemini and previously was married 15 years to a Gemini.

 

My boyfriend and my ex are 3 days apart and are day in night in character.

 

They have common denominators like they are both very energetic, social, easy to approach, witty with a quick sense of humor but deep down, they are completely different people so cannot be compared.

[hugsandkisses]

I am currently dating a Gemini and previously was married 15 years to a Gemini.

 

My boyfriend and my ex are 3 days apart and are day in night in character.

 

They have common denominators like they are both very energetic, social, easy to approach, witty with a quick sense of humor but deep down, they are completely different people so cannot be compared.

 

This one I'm dating doesn't just have sun in gemini but also venus in gemini, which kind of takes me back a little bit. What is your sign if you don't mind me asking?

[stillafool]

Insights on dating gemini men?

 

Yes, if you aren't a libra don't even try.

[Gaeta]

This one I'm dating doesn't just have sun in gemini but also venus in gemini, which kind of takes me back a little bit. What is your sign if you don't mind me asking?

 

I am a Libra, you?

 

Gemini is one of my top 3 most compatible signs.

[stillafool]

I am a Libra, you?

 

Gemini is one of my top 3 most compatible signs.

 

My husband is a Gemini and I'm a Libra.

[hugsandkisses]

I am a Libra, you?

 

Gemini is one of my top 3 most compatible signs.

 

So how do you Libra ladies handle gemini? Im unfortunately the least compatible sign with Gemini, I'm a pisces. But I would like to think that astrology is not the end of this.

[Satu]

Whenever anyone asks me what sign I am, I always say:

 

"Beware of the dog."

[hugsandkisses]

 

Yes, if you aren't a libra don't even try.

 

Just like how they all advise that Pisces and Capricorn are a good match, dated 3 Capricorns, none worked out.

[Leigh 87]

Depends on your own star sign doesn't it?

 

 

Gemini men feature a lot in my dating history although I do not put THAT much stock in star signs... although my current guy is "compatible " with me astrologically, lol!

 

 

 

 

So yeah. Gemini men seemed to generate great chemistry with me but were VERY incompatible! Child like in nature and very ambitious men financially...