Need yours opinnion

[coin]

Hello girls and boys, i dont know does this post have place in second chances, but please read on

I need Yours opinnion. My ex gf broke up with me before 6 months. We were together for 7 years. Her reasons was that she doesent love me like before, and that she neef space and time, and stuff like this.

This was before 6 months. Her first reaction after breakup was relief i think, she started to go out living her life, posting pictures on her fb and stuff like this. I tried couple of months to get her back but nothing helped.

Biggest problems in our rs was lack of comunication and sex life last year of our rs.

I made mistakes about sex i taked her for granted and i been selfish, and she thinked that she isnt atractive to me anymore. I love her and she is atractive to me but there was period in our rs where our sex wasnt good, last year of rs. I told her once that it would be good if she go to gym to tight herself a little bit and there started problems.

That make her sad abd angry and she told me that she think dat she is not atractive to me. And from this moment i think that she started to fall out off love.

This was not only problem, and iam not only one who is wrong there, she also taked me for granted, and i felt neglected and not her priority many times..

 

So why i posted this in second chances is this:

After breakup she was happy and verry cold on me.

I tried everything but she didnt want me back.

She never contacted me first, but then suddenly she started sending me texts for christmas and my birthday, and there we started some cominication.

Iv been in no contact before that 3 months.

And before one week i started to see other girl, i think that she find that out and she send me text that i have some stuff lefted in her flat when we was together. That was some stupid object nothing importand, and she wanted to give me this back. I say ok ant come to her for this.

And when i come to here we started to laugh talk she wanted to stay longer, we have really nice time..i saw in her eyes how she look at me and it was like before.

She is type of girl who dont want to tell you directly what she want..and because of that i started teasing her and i put conversation o fire, and there was talking of us getting back together..she started to ask me about girls i dated i didnt want to tell her all details just little bit..

She also dated some guys, she told me abou one guy and she was disapointef with him..

 

She told me that she would to try again but things must be different. I also agreed and tell her that she need to tell me what she want and that we can make things right..she seemed happy with this and then suddenly she started to change her mind all in 10 minutes of conversation. That she is not sure about this and that, that she think everything would be like before and so on...and there i walked away..

 

I tried to explain to you my story on best way, i hope you can understand.

 

Summary is this..there was problems in our rs i am willing to fix everything, i showed her how much i love her. She started to change after 6 months i think the reason was she dated some guys and realise that i am not bad at all.

I dont know is this gigs or what..but she changed from happy after breakuo to not so happy now..i dont know what to ****ing think..

 

After our conversation she told me that she need to be apsolutley sure that she want to get back, and that she is not 100% sure...abd that she is not sure in her feelings..

 

Thanks for your time people

[AlexDream]

Well, she's a player. When she realized you had another GF she decided to 'pull the hook' just to be sure you were still hers. She achieved her goal and outwitted you.

 

If you wanna her back - write her a message 'I've decided not to go through. It's not gonna work so forget about getting back, ok?'. Then - NC. During NC just wait and you'll see what happens.

[coin]

Well, she's a player. When she realized you had another GF she decided to 'pull the hook' just to be sure you were still hers. She achieved her goal and outwitted you.

 

If you wanna her back - write her a message 'I've decided not to go through. It's not gonna work so forget about getting back, ok?'. Then - NC. During NC just wait and you'll see what happens.

 

Alex thanks for your reply...yes she is clever, but is this love? Is this gigs? I will try to date around and keep you close, so if nobody isnt better than we can try =situation

I dont know what to think but this is most logical explanation

[AlexDream]

Alex thanks for your reply...yes she is clever, but is this love? Is this gigs? I will try to date around and keep you close, so if nobody isnt better than we can try =situation

I dont know what to think but this is most logical explanation

Is this thread about analyzing or you need advice?

 

So my advice here - stop analyzing. Another part was in my previous message.

 

The reason she is doing this, in my opinion, she's afraid of loneliness and keep you just in case. Break it. Be a man but not a spineless creature and then she will respect you.