Author qq2016 Posted April 12, 2016 Author Share Posted April 12, 2016 Well at least my ex is not responsible for anything. But it is the women who use him and treat him badly. haha your ex is so funny This guy said he is hurt because I am mean to him Link to post Share on other sites
Fruitee Posted April 12, 2016 Share Posted April 12, 2016 haha your ex is so funny This guy said he is hurt because I am mean to him Sounds familiar. I was the bitch because I didnt wanna settle down with him. Are you sure you are not seeing my ex. ;D Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted April 12, 2016 Share Posted April 12, 2016 qq2016 Do you want to be a truly single parent with no financial support & an absentee father for your child? Honestly, based solely on the irresponsible decisions you have disclosed here -- having unprotected sex on your fertile days with a man you know is manipulating you & who you are not in a relationship with-- you bringing a child into this world is a bad deal for the child. Stop playing Russian Roulette with another human being's life. Your possible unborn baby deserves better. Having a kid with this man will NOT tie him to you! What are you thinking? 6 Link to post Share on other sites
Author qq2016 Posted April 12, 2016 Author Share Posted April 12, 2016 Sounds familiar. I was the bitch because I didnt wanna settle down with him. Are you sure you are not seeing my ex. ;D Your ex is so funny and made me laugh This guy is 25 years old but looks shy sometimes, too bad I thought he was kinda innocent at the beginning, but he is actually not. After playing me for so many times I realized he is a liar and player Link to post Share on other sites
Fruitee Posted April 12, 2016 Share Posted April 12, 2016 Your ex is so funny and made me laugh This guy is 25 years old but looks shy sometimes, too bad I thought he was kinda innocent at the beginning, but he is actually not. After playing me for so many times I realized he is a liar and player Good. Now block delete and forget. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted April 12, 2016 Share Posted April 12, 2016 After playing me for so many times I realized he is a liar and player So does this mean you will stop having unprotected sex with him & kick him out of your life for good? 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author qq2016 Posted April 12, 2016 Author Share Posted April 12, 2016 qq2016 Do you want to be a truly single parent with no financial support & an absentee father for your child? Honestly, based solely on the irresponsible decisions you have disclosed here -- having unprotected sex on your fertile days with a man you know is manipulating you & who you are not in a relationship with-- you bringing a child into this world is a bad deal for the child. Stop playing Russian Roulette with another human being's life. Your possible unborn baby deserves better. Having a kid with this man will NOT tie him to you! What are you thinking? Thanks for reminding me all this:),very helpful. I told him that I don't want to be a single mom and I don't want my baby who wouldn't have a dad in the picture. But part of me does want his child because I really like him, plus I am at my 30's now and do want to be a parent and I am not sure who I can meet next and willing to have a baby with me No I won't have a baby with him. We said goodbye already yesterday and I was very rude to him and don't think he would come back 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author qq2016 Posted April 12, 2016 Author Share Posted April 12, 2016 Good. Now block delete and forget. I did it already yesterday 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author qq2016 Posted April 12, 2016 Author Share Posted April 12, 2016 So does this mean you will stop having unprotected sex with him & kick him out of your life for good? I think we are done this time. I told him to **** off yesterday already. Yesterday he manipulated me first, saying that he would come to meet me, but eventually he didn't show up. I went mad at him and I believe he would be forever gone this time Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted April 12, 2016 Share Posted April 12, 2016 He'll be back. He doesn't think you are strong enough to resist his charms. He thinks yesterday was an aberration. You need to steel yourself to be strong & stay away for good. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author qq2016 Posted April 12, 2016 Author Share Posted April 12, 2016 Thanks for all the comments. Now I clearly know what this guy is like and it will help me to move on Yesterday he texted me with another number(he has had so many phone numbers). I googled that number, and found out that number was on a hook up site. But it looks like the ads was created by a hot 20 years old girl in last November. I questioned him about it, he said he just got this number from the phone service company... Link to post Share on other sites
Author qq2016 Posted April 12, 2016 Author Share Posted April 12, 2016 He'll be back. He doesn't think you are strong enough to resist his charms. He thinks yesterday was an aberration. You need to steel yourself to be strong & stay away for good. He is probably playing the same game with other girls too He is cute and very fit, but looks shy sometimes, so I guess he might not be very experienced.. Link to post Share on other sites
smudge21 Posted April 12, 2016 Share Posted April 12, 2016 He's nasty. As much as you've made excuses for his behaviour, you don't want to be making excuses to his child when daddy never turns up. You can do better. Have a real long lasting meaningful relationship with someone; someone who you will want to start a family with and who'll feel the same way about you. Never settle just because you think you can't do better. Value yourself more and others will do the same. Link to post Share on other sites
Fruitee Posted April 12, 2016 Share Posted April 12, 2016 Trust me. You dont wanna make a baby with this dude. And you will have better options as well. Woman who made a baby with my ex is now alone taking care of kids while daddy is partying and not being there. So whatever help or needs you might have wont be met with him. He wont be around. He wont help. If you are willing and ready to be single mom 100 % then go ahead. But this dude wont be there for you. Or for his baby. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Toodaloo Posted April 12, 2016 Share Posted April 12, 2016 He is mentally ill. I’m reading way too much of this type of craziness here about dudes. Where are you ladies finding these guys? Its frighteningly easy I am afraid... Now back to OP. Have some respect for yourself and stop treating yourself like a prize cow that the bull puts in calf! For pitys sake woman you are more than an flipping incubator! Do not ever EVER allow a man to take such advantage of you again. I don't care if he is hung like King Kong or looks as good as... oh heck which famous guy do youngsters fancy these days... Justin Beaber! You do not drop your knickers and your dignity for men like this EVER. Go and get yourself checked at the STD clinic asap. Go and get the morning after pill from your doctor. Then take some time to develop some confidence in who you are and what your worth is. Because I can tell you now its a heck of a lot more than this! Educate yourself, learn as much as you can. Get your feet planted firmly on the ground then find someone worthy of you. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Fruitee Posted April 12, 2016 Share Posted April 12, 2016 He is probably playing the same game with other girls too He is cute and very fit, but looks shy sometimes, so I guess he might not be very experienced.. When ever he wont show up he is with another woman. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author qq2016 Posted April 12, 2016 Author Share Posted April 12, 2016 When ever he wont show up he is with another woman. I think so. But why he initiated the meeting while he was with another woman? He wasn't afraid he would be caught? Link to post Share on other sites
Fruitee Posted April 12, 2016 Share Posted April 12, 2016 I think so. But why he initiated the meeting while he was with another woman? He wasn't afraid he would be caught? Because he dont want you to meet someone else. Link to post Share on other sites
Toodaloo Posted April 12, 2016 Share Posted April 12, 2016 I think so. But why he initiated the meeting while he was with another woman? He wasn't afraid he would be caught? He is a looser so he doesn't care... He is just shoving his penis into anything he can. Do not fall for it again. Just stop. Take a look around you, get some better male role models who are better than this then look for men who are like that instead of this... this... this... I can't say it or I will end up being moderated again... And for goodness sake get yourself to the local clap clinic. Get checked. Make sure you are healthy. Link to post Share on other sites
Fruitee Posted April 12, 2016 Share Posted April 12, 2016 Guys like him text like 10 women and then end up in one of them place. Others are waiting in the mean while. Women are hang upon on him because his games and mind games and manipulation. And are not able to get real relationships. While this guy just ****s around. Then he comes around once in a while and talks about babies to keep you hooked again when he notices that you are getting too far away from him. Dont fall for it. It is not true. Its just bunch of bs. Link to post Share on other sites
losangelena Posted April 12, 2016 Share Posted April 12, 2016 Sorry, I may have missed something. WHY are you trifling with this idiot? He sounds like he's about the last dude I'd spread my legs for. 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Author qq2016 Posted April 12, 2016 Author Share Posted April 12, 2016 Because he dont want you to meet someone else. Why? If he doesn't have feelings for me, why he cares? Being possessive? I haven't seen him for like 3 weeks. He always wanted to see me but I declined many times. Last Friday night he wanted to see me, but I said he could come the next morning. But when the morning came, after talking to him I knew that he wanted sex only so I refused to see him again. Maybe he was doing the same thing towards me...but I am sure he has other women Link to post Share on other sites
Author qq2016 Posted April 12, 2016 Author Share Posted April 12, 2016 Guys like him text like 10 women and then end up in one of them place. Others are waiting in the mean while. Women are hang upon on him because his games and mind games and manipulation. And are not able to get real relationships. While this guy just ****s around. Then he comes around once in a while and talks about babies to keep you hooked again when he notices that you are getting too far away from him. Dont fall for it. It is not true. Its just bunch of bs. Absolutely. I think it was what exactly happened last Saturday morning. He said he was coming to my place and was on his way, but still didn't show up within 5 hours. After 5 hours he emailed me and asked me if I took a pill after having sex with him last time. I guess he probably went to another woman's bed and just finished. Link to post Share on other sites
Fruitee Posted April 12, 2016 Share Posted April 12, 2016 Why? If he doesn't have feelings for me, why he cares? Being possessive? I haven't seen him for like 3 weeks. He always wanted to see me but I declined many times. Last Friday night he wanted to see me, but I said he could come the next morning. But when the morning came, after talking to him I knew that he wanted sex only so I refused to see him again. Maybe he was doing the same thing towards me...but I am sure he has other women To have sex. Thats why. Easy sex. Easy access. Link to post Share on other sites
LoveRefreshed Posted April 12, 2016 Share Posted April 12, 2016 usually I tell a woman this, jokingly, when I want to sleep with her. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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