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Me and my bf been together for 5 months and I recently spent time with him. One night at 1 some in the morning, his phone ringed several times and he didn't bother to answer it. He claim it might of been this person or that person. So the next day, I went through his gallery on his phone and saw a bunch of screenshots of this naked woman and she damn sure wasn't a model. And I didn't see not one photo of me. I know I was invading his privacy in which I felt bad but I was pissed off. I confronted him and he tells me that those photos were from Facebook of a woman being exposed. And he was sending his cousin those photos to let his cousin know that his side chick was exposed. But then I told him what was the point of screenshoting 8 photos of this woman to show your cousin. And then he tells me the photos of me is on his SD card in his phone but his photos on his SD card would still pop up in gallery. I'm just mad that I did a seek and you shall find ****. I really don't want to end it but then again I will have trust issues more in the future with him. If we can't work on his situation. Any advice

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LoveRefreshed

IMO, anyone involved in drama that involves "side chicks" finds cheating and affairs to be an every day thing. Even if that's not his 'side chick', he's probably got one. I'd dump and move on.

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I've called him twice to break up with him because we've had too many issues. But now he didn't answer. So I will have text him. Smh

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Me and my bf been together for 5 months and I recently spent time with him. One night at 1 some in the morning, his phone ringed several times and he didn't bother to answer it. He claim it might of been this person or that person. So the next day, I went through his gallery on his phone and saw a bunch of screenshots of this naked woman and she damn sure wasn't a model. And I didn't see not one photo of me. I know I was invading his privacy in which I felt bad but I was pissed off. I confronted him and he tells me that those photos were from Facebook of a woman being exposed. And he was sending his cousin those photos to let his cousin know that his side chick was exposed. But then I told him what was the point of screenshoting 8 photos of this woman to show your cousin. And then he tells me the photos of me is on his SD card in his phone but his photos on his SD card would still pop up in gallery. I'm just mad that I did a seek and you shall find ****. I really don't want to end it but then again I will have trust issues more in the future with him. If we can't work on his situation. Any advice

 

You are putting way too much thought into this. Your Boyfriend is so full of crap his teeth are floating. Don't even bother calling or texting to break up. Just go silent and block him from contacting you. You are never going to get a real answer...and do not feel bad about invading his privacy. You obviously were invading his secrecy, and that is good thing.

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I wish I didn't call him. He kept yelling at me saying I'm nicpicking and all I asked was what was the date of the photos he screenshot and he said he'll show me but never did. Thank you all. I highly upset but I have to get over this bullshxt

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Don't waste any more time on him. His justification and blameshifting is all you need to know he isn't worth any more effort. Let him be someone else's problem.

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I wish I didn't call him. He kept yelling at me saying I'm nicpicking and all I asked was what was the date of the photos he screenshot and he said he'll show me but never did. Thank you all. I highly upset but I have to get over this bullshxt

 

So did you break up with him?

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Right now we are not talking. I didn't respond to his txt message stating.. That he proved his point and it doesn't matter what the date was on the screenshots because I would keep arguing with him if he would of told me the date.

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hun.. seems like hes hiding something.. better u find someone who is more respectful and treats u right than this fool.. 5 months and already u finding out things... imagine in 2 or 3 years time... if u having trust issues.. then just leave and u can easily recover from a short term relationship... u deserve better!

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I haven't contact him back from yesterday and I'm officially done with him. He wanted me to end our relationship anyway from telling me in the past that he wasn't going to vent to me anymore off an argument we've had. I've realized that he never did love me like he said neither did he show enough.

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