Lost Irishman Posted April 12, 2016 Share Posted April 12, 2016 Hey, I've posted my full story previously, but heres a recent update: My ex fiancé told me she got into a " serious relationship" 3 months after we split. I have recently found out, he is a Widower with 3 children. His wife passed away 2 years just gone and they were childhood sweethearts. I know all this, because my ex and this guy mix in the same circles. My ex has 2 children from a previous marriage and whom I loved dearly and was excited about being their step dad. When we split my ex gave me an example of how she felt pressured, she said we were all in the car one day (i.e my daughter, her 2 daughters, her and I) and it dawned on her that she went from just her and her girls to a husband and 3 kids. So I really cant understand how she has made this massive emotional jump to take on 3 other children. All 5 children range from 8 to 16. They have been seing each other 3 months now. Im really confused. Link to post Share on other sites
Poppy47 Posted April 12, 2016 Share Posted April 12, 2016 I'm sorry you are feeling this way. It doesn't make sense to me. I do think you have posted in the wrong forum. Poppy. Link to post Share on other sites
BuddyX Posted April 12, 2016 Share Posted April 12, 2016 She wasn't attracted to you anymore. Odds are, she had a guy on the side towards the end of your relationship. She proved that she can't be alone. She needs a man in her (her kids) life. Just be glad you dodged a bullet there. Time to move on. Link to post Share on other sites
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