GemmaUK Posted April 14, 2016 Share Posted April 14, 2016 She isn't shooting herself in the foot though. She is perfectly entitled to want a great guy who is right for her. You just weren't it. You say her profile is a rant - why would you mail her if it puts you off?? You still haven't responded to whether all these questions are visible before contact on OKC - are they visible? If you see a rant in a profile and a question answered that makes you think she has no life why would you mail her? Why? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted April 14, 2016 Share Posted April 14, 2016 It's her life. She can shoot herself in the foot if she wants to. Yes, negativity is a huge turn off. But even if she wasn't being picky, there's still no evidence that she would have picked you. Block her & focus all your energy on somebody who has views more in alignment with your own 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author LookAtThisPOst Posted April 14, 2016 Author Share Posted April 14, 2016 You still haven't responded to whether all these questions are visible before contact on OKC - are they visible? Why? Yes, they are visible. Every profile on OK Cupid I've seen had the questions visible. Link to post Share on other sites
MidwestUSA Posted April 15, 2016 Share Posted April 15, 2016 Shooting their-selves in the foot by having unrealistic expectations. According to YOU. Not if she's complaining about the inability to find a good man IN her profile. I see it a lot. A lot of people after being on these dating sites for a while update their profiles with rants...treating it almost like another Facebook. Or another Loveshack! You can't see the irony? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
scorpiogirl Posted April 15, 2016 Share Posted April 15, 2016 I don't understand why you don't take your own "advice". Why don't you relocate? Why don't you change the way you've done things till now? How are you different from any of these women? You're still on the same sites years later, break Or no break. You repeat the same patterns, same tired old stories. Adjust your expectations, as you expect others to do. It's always someone else's fault. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Imajerk17 Posted April 15, 2016 Share Posted April 15, 2016 (edited) I don't understand why you don't take your own "advice". Why don't you relocate? Why don't you change the way you've done things till now? How are you different from any of these women? You're still on the same sites years later, break Or no break. You repeat the same patterns, same tired old stories. Adjust your expectations, as you expect others to do. It's always someone else's fault. I agree. I wonder why the OP doesn't take his own "advice" and relocate. Meanwhile, I'm not sure that answering 1000 questions on OKC is any worse than posting 1000 threads on here* that are basically the same topic. *literally, 1000 threads, under this and other usernames Edited April 15, 2016 by Imajerk17 3 Link to post Share on other sites
BikerAccnt Posted April 15, 2016 Share Posted April 15, 2016 I've used OKC before, and I know I still have a profle there. And now that I am single again after two years I'm sure I'll end up re-activating it. Answering those questions can be fun! Some people answer a few, some answer a lot. I think over the years there (yes years, when one relationship fails, or a date doesn't work out, I do back - does that make me a loser too? ) I'd bet I've answered about 400 of them. Just something fun to do and if it means someone closer to my likes matches, all the better. That said, I don't just go by match alone unless something is an absolute deal breaker. Link to post Share on other sites
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