LocLangTang Posted April 14, 2016 Share Posted April 14, 2016 Hello Loveshack! Im 29 shes 25, we are from Germany if that matters My girlfriend for one year broke up with me in August. I was still in love with her and of course it hurt me alot. We kept having sex for a while, I was a needy and clingy mess. After that I decided to end all contact with her, for my own good. That lasted for about fourty days. I meet her in the club, we ended up in bed together again. Since then we been in low contact for a couple of months and we even went out for drinks once or twice (without having sex) We even talked about other sex partners we both had since we broke up. I felt fine with that and we both had a good time together. Im no longer a mess and feel more in control of the situation. Lately we had a little more contact, mainly texting but even some phone calls. There have been no flirting really, but friendly good talks with lots of laughter. After a while we met up for drinks and have sex. The next weekend we met up again same story and she stays the night. The morning after she tells me how good of a friend I am and she doenst want to have sex with me anymore, it could ruin or friendship and that she's afraid of losing me. Three days goes by and she calls me out of the blue for drinks. We talk a little about the talk we had. I make no big deal about it. During the night she compliment me for my apperance and how changed I am. Of course she ends up staying the night, having the best sex we ever had. Now she contacts me first almost all the time, still just cold talk. Gets upset if I dont answer her texts fast enough. Hinting about meeting up etc etc. Actually im not sure what I want. But I want to keep having casual sex. Maybe if it felt right, a chance of being together again. For the record we both dont see sex as a big deal. Really dont want to be friendzoned after a while... How do I maximize my chances here? Should I keep playing it laidback? Advice and input needed! Thanks Loveshack! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
jen1447 Posted April 14, 2016 Share Posted April 14, 2016 What are you trying to maximize your chances of exactly? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author LocLangTang Posted April 14, 2016 Author Share Posted April 14, 2016 What are you trying to maximize your chances of exactly? Of having things they way they are or even more if I ever wanted to Link to post Share on other sites
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