tracey86 Posted April 14, 2016 Share Posted April 14, 2016 So how do I start over... just involuntarily broke up with my OM, totally not over that. But I want to be better to my husband so we can fix things but i don't know where to start. Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted April 15, 2016 Share Posted April 15, 2016 Does your husband know that you've betrayed him in the worst way possible? I think you'll find it hard to "move on" if he doesn't. Trying to keep that kind of secret generally doesn't work out well. Link to post Share on other sites
Bee4Shine Posted April 16, 2016 Share Posted April 16, 2016 I know it is hard, you can never have the kind of a relationship with your husband if there is an OM. I am glad you broke that off. Concentrate on your DH now and find the good things in your relationship. Marriage takes work, most of that work can be fun, adventure and truly getting to know one another. But you have to be intentional about being there for one another. Put the past behind you as well as those behaviors and commit to making your marriage a fabulous friendship and life. Link to post Share on other sites
Honourably honest Posted April 17, 2016 Share Posted April 17, 2016 If you aren't going to tell him, consider whether you love him. If you do then in your own mind make amends with him. Make him that special person once again. Link to post Share on other sites
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