skinut2234 Posted April 15, 2016 Share Posted April 15, 2016 moved out and it's a little too soon to get into a relationship for me..... I would just like to go out and talk(have a drink) with a women right now. I wanted to just sign up for like match.com to see what is out there- I but... if i sign up for that it will come up on my credit card- Are there any other ways to pay for these sites? I just don't think it's fair to my wife right now to "publish" so to speak I am out there. I will probably not post a pic obviously....... i don't know- I am new to all this Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted April 15, 2016 Share Posted April 15, 2016 Aren't you jumping the gun a little? Wait until your divorce is final. Everything you do while you're still married is a strike against you and money that rightfully also belongs to her. It will come back to bite you before the judge and make you look really irresponsible. Taking more cash out than normal will too. You'll have to account for everything. It's too common for people to start spending marital money on other people and I promise you it will only lead to big attorneys' fees for the extra time and effort and investigation that it will cause to get to the bottom of it for an equitable settlement. Do yourself a favor and consider yourself married until you're not, and don't buy anything you wouldn't have bought during the marriage. The cost is the price of the dating site, plus the dates, plus attorneys' fees and accountants' fees to sort it out. Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted April 15, 2016 Share Posted April 15, 2016 I think it's a moot point. No woman in her right mind would agree to meet a separated guy with no photo, anyway. Wait til you're sorted, then date others. Link to post Share on other sites
Toodaloo Posted April 15, 2016 Share Posted April 15, 2016 Can't you ask your female friends to help you practice and take them out instead of trying to date? Seems to me you are pushing yourself too hard too fast and you kinda know it. As for what is out there, lovely ladies, crazy ladies, skinny ladies, tubby ladies, blondes, brunettes, red heads... all manner of women. OLD is not easy. If you do it now while you are unsteady on your feet you will fall over and get hurt. Learn to walk on softer ground while you are still so sore. Then when it comes to it you can run on the tarmac and not scrape your knees... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
mikeylo Posted April 15, 2016 Share Posted April 15, 2016 Have you filed for divorce ? Just being separated wont be enough for those women who want something more. Be careful about money.You will have to account for it. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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