I really need getting my ex back

[tyronehayles]

hi all please could someone give me some advice because i am at a complete loss on what to do.

 

my ex broke up with me in feb this year after a row over the weekend where she was in the wrong and i was very angry. she was citing she does not love me anymore,we didn't live together, lack of sex throughout our 6year relationship, i never posted things of her on Facebook, instagram etc although i am a private person and she knows that, where as she is a social butterfly.

 

she is a very stubborn women and very hotheaded so once something is in her mind she goes to town with it.

 

i tried to convince her to fight for us as i love her and also we have a son together, but didn't budge.

 

i had a cancer scare around the same time so when i got the all clear i gave her a 4page letter saying how wrong i was, how much i love her etc and she basically said it does not matter we are done but does not know what will happen in the future. so after that i went back to limited contact and stupidly i spoke with her sister and she told my ex everything and she was livid, basically told me in anger to move on, stop waiting and she does not love me anymore.

 

so again went back to limited contact. fast forward to easter we where getting on a lot better and we took our so out for the day which was lovely and she was posting pics of us online etc then just went back to being cold.

 

fast forward to now and we get on ever so well, we laugh, joke, even play fight the odd time, have cuddled a few times although she said "this is orchard" i also always see her looking at me which i don't know if is a good sign.

 

also i have been doing anc and sorting myself out and i am in a very good place and feel different, also i am moving to her area next month on my own to be close to my son, which i did hope would make her think wow he has actually done something what i wanted for so many years which he didn't want to do... might spark something, but does not seem very interested which i have found a shock.

 

i love this women very much and also love my son more then life itself but i just can't figure out if this is futile and she is just not interested and i should move on or I'm in the right track to winning her back.

[DreamP]

She is not interested. Nothing you describe sounds like she has any interest. Time to move on.

[mikeylo]

Sometimes its too little too late. What she wanted years ago , you are doing now.But it would have killed a part of her already.The part that she desired desparately at that time.

Give your best shot.

[Geminix004]

hi all please could someone give me some advice because i am at a complete loss on what to do.

 

my ex broke up with me in feb this year after a row over the weekend where she was in the wrong and i was very angry. she was citing she does not love me anymore,we didn't live together, lack of sex throughout our 6year relationship, i never posted things of her on Facebook, instagram etc although i am a private person and she knows that, where as she is a social butterfly.

 

she is a very stubborn women and very hotheaded so once something is in her mind she goes to town with it.

 

i tried to convince her to fight for us as i love her and also we have a son together, but didn't budge.

 

i had a cancer scare around the same time so when i got the all clear i gave her a 4page letter saying how wrong i was, how much i love her etc and she basically said it does not matter we are done but does not know what will happen in the future. so after that i went back to limited contact and stupidly i spoke with her sister and she told my ex everything and she was livid, basically told me in anger to move on, stop waiting and she does not love me anymore.

 

so again went back to limited contact. fast forward to easter we where getting on a lot better and we took our so out for the day which was lovely and she was posting pics of us online etc then just went back to being cold.

 

fast forward to now and we get on ever so well, we laugh, joke, even play fight the odd time, have cuddled a few times although she said "this is orchard" i also always see her looking at me which i don't know if is a good sign.

 

also i have been doing anc and sorting myself out and i am in a very good place and feel different, also i am moving to her area next month on my own to be close to my son, which i did hope would make her think wow he has actually done something what i wanted for so many years which he didn't want to do... might spark something, but does not seem very interested which i have found a shock.

 

i love this women very much and also love my son more then life itself but i just can't figure out if this is futile and she is just not interested and i should move on or I'm in the right track to winning her back.

 

 

Don't sweat it man, if it's meant to be it's meant to be. Maybe she just wants you to be near her son.

[saturn333]

Sometimes its too little too late. What she wanted years ago , you are doing now.But it would have killed a part of her already.The part that she desired desparately at that time.

Give your best shot.

 

+1. Totally sums up how I feel about some stuff right now.