Bohdi10 Posted June 18, 2005 Share Posted June 18, 2005 I am in that part of my life where I really want to find someone to settle down with. I like going out and partying but I would like to have someone that is up for doing that only on occasion and can do the whole dating relationship thing. I am curious what it is I"m doing wrong or why I feel like nothing ever works out anymore. What is it that girls really want in a guy. I mean, I am told by some of my girls that are friends that I'm cute, but for some reason I am critical about myself and feel like I"m not all that great looking. I am only 5'6", but in pretty good shape, have a good job and have a great personality according to friends. What is it that I can do to better myself to get what I want? Link to post Share on other sites
Artscrafter Posted June 18, 2005 Share Posted June 18, 2005 Originally posted by Bohdi10 but for some reason I am critical about myself and feel like I"m not all that great looking. This is the core of the problem right here. Listen to those friends of yours and try to develop more confidence. Women like confident guys. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Bohdi10 Posted June 18, 2005 Author Share Posted June 18, 2005 but I am confident, I keep that comment to myself when I am around girls. I ask girls out, approach them at the bar and everything. I don't think confidence is the problem. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony Posted June 18, 2005 Senior Moderators Share Posted June 18, 2005 Women pick up on the way you feel about yourself. They are very intuitive. You need to work on thinking a lot more highly of yourself. When you do, they will also. It works everytime. Make a lot of female friends. When women see you hanging with a bunch of ladies, they'll go nuts over you. Sort of magic....and the more women are attracted to you, the better you'll feel. It's sad that so many people hinge their feelings about themselves on how others react to them. Link to post Share on other sites
kandi13 Posted June 23, 2005 Share Posted June 23, 2005 ok i am so sick of guys...I really am.....Girls want guys that they can trust and love....and the same back. I mean seriously....Girls are afraid to get hurt in a relationship. Alot of girls are so sick of trusting guys, when all they do is hurt them. What you need to do is be self confident in yourself, and when you find a girl treat her right...sometimes theres no second chances.... Link to post Share on other sites
smile95 Posted June 23, 2005 Share Posted June 23, 2005 if you are looking to settle down, we are looking for the same things you are. The qualities you want and that are desireable are what we want too. For me, I want someone honest and who makes me feel safe. Someone who is caring and gives as much as they take. A best friend. Someone to count on. Link to post Share on other sites
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