they Posted April 18, 2016 Share Posted April 18, 2016 (edited) Known her for about a year now, we're both around 20 and I think she's pretty cute. Was thinking of asking for her number .. is that what us young folk are meant to do? If she asks why then I could say 'to send you a picture of course', I know some PUA is gonna waltz in here, or someone who is a believer in 'eternal friend-zone' telling me to man up or whatever, but I think shes the sort of person that would become uncomfortable if I'm too direct. If anyone can share experiences they had to either succeed/fail at converting a friend into something more, and what you learnt from it. This may be very helpful to me. Edited April 18, 2016 by they Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted April 18, 2016 Share Posted April 18, 2016 I think what you are planning is fine. While you are chatting offer to buy her a coffee or a pint right them & there, then ask for the number. PUA is a crock but the two valid points are: You need to have some self confidence and finesse is a good thing. You can't appear to be too random (unless you are cocky enough to pull that off) Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted April 18, 2016 Share Posted April 18, 2016 Have you been talking to her for a year and no phone number? That seems a little strange to me. I mean, if I'm talking to someone and they're talking back and being friendly, seems only natural you'd have exchanged numbers by now. Link to post Share on other sites
Author they Posted April 18, 2016 Author Share Posted April 18, 2016 (edited) Have you been talking to her for a year and no phone number? That seems a little strange to me. I mean, if I'm talking to someone and they're talking back and being friendly, seems only natural you'd have exchanged numbers by now. I never had a friend ask for my number tbh. o.O so now that I think about it, it would feel very unnatural to me. 'Finesse' is so not me. lol. Now I don't know what to do. Edited April 18, 2016 by they Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted April 19, 2016 Share Posted April 19, 2016 Why would you have a friend ask for it? I thought you said you've been knowing her for a year. Again, does that mean you have been talking to her for a year? Or only that you have seen her over and over and think she's pretty? Link to post Share on other sites
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