CoWorkers Mixed Signals - How to address his behavior

[Montgomery Burns]

I have posted about this coworker in the past in another forum but this question applies to us professionally.

 

He is married and I do find him very attractive. Nothing has been said or done that is completely unprofessional.

 

I take much of his behavior as friendly but some has been in my opinion flirtatious. Things like:

 

Staring at me from across a large building

Asking me to come talk to him

Lots and lots of lingering eye contact

Smiling and being silly with me all the time

Giving me nicknames

Telling and Asking me about the weekend

He remember s everything about me and asks lots about my life

Telling me about everything

 

So flirting right?

 

Well I keep my distance, and yesterday while I was talking to someone he came and took a picture of me. Just me. 2nd time this has happened. He just laughs afterwards and I go about my business.

 

I think the picture was a bit too much. I can't think of a reason why it would be friendly in nature. Before I address this with him, I want to make sure I am not misreading this.

[acrosstheuniverse]

No, you are not misunderstanding this, that's totally outta line. I'd go to his supervisor with that behaviour.

[Montgomery Burns]

I was hoping to avoid a potential issue with HR. But that makes sense. He probably would take my requests the wrong way. Thank You.

[Montgomery Burns]

I escalated today. Feel so terrible for doing so. I hope everything goes well.