Is this the best way to get her back?

[eclipse]

Hi everyone, been awhile - here goes.

I am wondering what the best way to get an ex to reconsider dating you is?

 

quick background - broke up mutually a year ago because I needed to work on some things. She then dated around, I wanted to get over her first before I started dating. Were very close after broken up until I wanted NC 3 months ago to heal because she wouldn't go back with me. She didn't like the fact I implimented NC on her, but she abided.

 

She called some time ago for a dumb reason, and was trying to pry in my personal life, she wasn't even that friendly. She has a boyfriend now, she was seeing this guy when we were friends before the NC started, but she never called him her boyfriend until now, and even told me he was annoying before (who knows).

 

While on the phone I told her about my up and coming career and that I was happy and now have a girlfriend, all of which is true. It's weird I even go out now which when we were together, she said I was a homebody. I am like almost complete opposite of what I used to be, and I know she knows it.

 

I haven't rang her back, since she called last week to return my blanket, which ultimately seemed to be a "wonder who he's dating" reason for calling. She even mentioned her boyfriend (how nice).

 

I have been acting like I don't care about her, is this wrong? I don't call her unless she calls. She knows I'm doing good and am dating and going out. Should I keep acting this way to get her to want me back?

 

Thanks

[outdated]

Should I keep acting this way to get her to want me back?

 

Yes.

[fundamental]

Why would you want her back now that you have a girlfriend?!?!?! Ahhhh, you love the attention.

[EC]

Do you want her back?

 

She wasn't being nice? And she has a bf now?

 

As for her saying he was annoying I think that was just because she wants you to know she has somebody else but she doesn't want you to think it's that serious in case you were to have something again.

 

I say continue what you are doing but not to get her back. DO it for YOU!!! If you are going out again, and you have a gf now, and you have an awesome career ahead of you then keep going. You obviously didn't need her to achieve al of that.

 

I think you should still give it some time and really do the NC thing for a while longer. Because you didnt really heal after the breakup. You just recently started NC and i think you should keep that up for a while longer and enjoy your life.

 

And really look at your life right now and ask yourself.." Is she something that is missing from it? Do you need her in your life right now? Do you want her back in your life? "