Thatrealluv Posted April 22, 2016 Share Posted April 22, 2016 Hello everyone... I'm new to the board and so glad I've found this site. Well I apologize if I posted in the wrong discussion area but here goes my story. In think it's important that I given the based and most important part. In a lesbian woman who is fully out, and about 3years ago is when I met her... Or rather she met me... It happen to be at our jobs and at first it was friendship and I just saw it that way... But we connected the spark was there... And yes it became difficult messy a lot of mixed signals. I have to empathize bc this woman has lived a heterosexual life she is not gay but has repressed her feelings for me... She likes me though... Crazy right.. During the three years of our limbo relationship/ friendship whatever you want to call it she started dating a guy we both work with, nice guy but she did this for whatever his knows why only to come back to me and leave the side whondoesnt understand her like I do... Ok how is it that I have never been intimate with someone but yet feel so close is drives me crazy and I can't take much more of this. She even invited us both to go out together and I almost went... Crazy right... I just can't do that to myself or the other person... I want out of this but can't escape because we work together. Any advice please Link to post Share on other sites
Michaelroyale Posted April 23, 2016 Share Posted April 23, 2016 Hi and welcome...This all sounds very complicated for you working all together but in any relationship there needs to be honesty trust and commitment to each other if that isn't there its never going to work...tell her how you feel and what you want from this relationship if things won't change walk away and simply don't involve yourself with her other wise your be emotionally hurt...best of luck Link to post Share on other sites
Author Thatrealluv Posted April 24, 2016 Author Share Posted April 24, 2016 Hi and welcome...This all sounds very complicated for you working all together but in any relationship there needs to be honesty trust and commitment to each other if that isn't there its never going to work...tell her how you feel and what you want from this relationship if things won't change walk away and simply don't involve yourself with her other wise your be emotionally hurt...best of luck Thx you... She knows already... I'm seriously thinking it's time for nc... So I can regain my life back Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden2 Posted April 24, 2016 Share Posted April 24, 2016 Thx you... She knows already... I'm seriously thinking it's time for nc... So I can regain my life back Please read the NC Guide in my signature. It has a paragraph (near the bottom) which covers how to implement NC when you have no choice but to see the other person... In any case, it's all useful and good stuff. Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Thatrealluv Posted April 24, 2016 Author Share Posted April 24, 2016 Please read the NC Guide in my signature. It has a paragraph (near the bottom) which covers how to implement NC when you have no choice but to see the other person... In any case, it's all useful and good stuff. Good luck. Thx you so much.. I will keep posted if how this go Link to post Share on other sites
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