truoc1219 Posted April 22, 2016 Share Posted April 22, 2016 Let me start with a quick background. I met the guy I am seeing last month. Our story is kinda cute, we met on the beach in Miami while he was vacationing (I live there now currently). When we started talking we realized we grew up in the same city our whole lives. We hit it off right away. Then planned to meet back up the the city we grew up in this coming Memorial Day weekend. He will move back because he finishes school and I will go back because I will be visiting family. Anyway, our communication has been through texting since we live in different states. We were talking about every 3 days. He mentioned I should visit him at school while he still lives there (a month sooner to see him than I expected). I bought my plane ticket as soon as he invited me and I went to visit him. While on the visit, we seemed to still hit it off, but I could tell he was alot shyer than he was when I met him. It was hard to tell if he was the same guy I met on the beach a month before. He ended up feeling sick most of the weekend, but I didnt mind. I came to see him, I didnt care what we did. He still took me out to brunch, paid for my meals, took me to a baseball game,etc. However, he only really showed his affection towards me when we were alone. I couldnt tell if this was just his personaility or what. Once the weekend was over, we hugged and kissed and told eachother we will see eachother in a month. Its been one week since my visit with him and he barley texts me. I cant tell if this is something I should be worried about or is this something I am overthinking? I would hope if he wasnt as in to me as he thought he would say something straight up. Any thoughts on what is going on here? I tend to overthink but I need more advice Need to know if I am wasting my time. Thank you! Link to post Share on other sites
Zippy2000 Posted April 22, 2016 Share Posted April 22, 2016 Really, really hard to tell as we dont know him but Im speaking from the point of veiew of a guy.I was interested in a girl I d probably "bomb" her phone with texts. well, okay thats just me. Id like to hear from soneone I like.The way you describe him is like he was instially attracted to you. A man wont invest and pay for dinner and drinks if he wasnt interested.In my opinion he likes you but not enough to continue seeing you maybe not romantically but as a friend.Id say dont push it and see if he comes to you. Link to post Share on other sites
Larryville Posted April 22, 2016 Share Posted April 22, 2016 (edited) We hit it off right away. I’m sorry again like someone’s fingernails on one of those old blackboards… sorry… *our communication has been through texting *talking about every 3 days. *I bought my plane ticket as soon as he invited me What in the heck did this dude do or say that prompted you to buy a freaking plane ticket? *While on the visit, we seemed to still hit it off *hard to tell if he was the same guy *ended up feeling sick most of the weekend, *only really showed his affection towards me when we were alone. *Its been one week since my visit with him and he barley texts me. *I cant tell if this is something I should be worried about or is this something I am overthinking? *am I wasting my time? *Go back and read these points… Just curious do you folks when you post stuff not go back and read your own stuff before you post and ask the community a question? Many of you can answer your own questions, just pay attention to your own gut. Yes you are absolutely and completely wasting your time, and the money you spent on a freaking plane ticket? Wow... Edited April 22, 2016 by Larryville Link to post Share on other sites
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