Ohio_isforLovers Posted June 19, 2005 Share Posted June 19, 2005 My ex is having a suprise party for her sweet sixteen...I still love this gurl and like ive been NC for like a onth already..But i got invited to her suprise party but, i danno if i wanna go because she has a Bf alrdy and if i go im just gonna get hurt....Recently She told me that shes beent hinking about me when shes with her Bf..(like all those fuzzy memories we used to have with eatch other and stuff lik tat) soo i geuss she still has feelings for me...But anyways i danno if i should go to her sweet sixteen...Shes only gonna have this thing only once in her life and i danno if i should be part of it... omg i need help... Link to post Share on other sites
BigB Posted June 19, 2005 Share Posted June 19, 2005 Originally posted by Ohio_isforLovers Recently She told me that shes beent hinking about me when shes with her Bf..(like all those fuzzy memories we used to have with eatch other and stuff lik tat) That doesn't sound like no contact. Who invited you? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ohio_isforLovers Posted June 19, 2005 Author Share Posted June 19, 2005 Her freind whos making the party... Its a suprise party my ex dosent know about the party... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ohio_isforLovers Posted June 19, 2005 Author Share Posted June 19, 2005 Soo basically i have no klue wat too doo... Link to post Share on other sites
BigB Posted June 19, 2005 Share Posted June 19, 2005 hmm.. It's a surprise party so you can't ask her if she'd like you to be there or not. My suggestion would be not to go. Your gonna get hurt by seeing her. Your gonna get hurt by seeing her with the new BF. (He's going right?) She's gonna feel uncomfortable seeing you there. Her new BF is going to be uncomfortable/angry with you there. Did you ask the friend why she invited you? She know's about the breakup right? I would never invite a friends ex to a party without first asking the friend if it was OK. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ohio_isforLovers Posted June 19, 2005 Author Share Posted June 19, 2005 Noo! i forgot to ask her why she invited me and yeah she does know about the breakup Well u think i should just give her my presents to a friend who kan give it to her, Who was also invited to the party? listen to wat i got this gurl... -A custom skateboard -Pair of vans -A hat Yea....As u kan c i spent some money on her Link to post Share on other sites
BigB Posted June 19, 2005 Share Posted June 19, 2005 why give an EX gifts? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ohio_isforLovers Posted June 19, 2005 Author Share Posted June 19, 2005 I danno good question...lol I guess because i still like this girl... Woah i sound soo sad...lol Link to post Share on other sites
strange love Posted June 19, 2005 Share Posted June 19, 2005 Sorry but I had to say that im looking at your posts and im thinking Bill and teds excellent adventure..... Im sure your intentions are best and your young. Maybe its best you just go ahead with what you have planned. Understand there is no guarrentees. You cant make your ex automatically like you by giving her gifts, you cant buy her love. I feel sorry for you cause you are so young and so fragile, not cold and messed up inside like me from so many female traumas. You can only learn by doing, if you get really hurt by this then you will think again next time. My other wish is that I wish you young kids would learn to spell, Im sorry that I say that its just its hard to understand the concepts you are trying to convey. AND on top that lil dude... as much as you bought her such lovely gifts if you had better grammar and spelling you could write her beautiful poetry which she would probably keep forever and may win her back more then the gifts.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ohio_isforLovers Posted June 19, 2005 Author Share Posted June 19, 2005 lol.... Link to post Share on other sites
Da_1_n_OnlyN3na Posted June 20, 2005 Share Posted June 20, 2005 ahahah lol.. hey im young too so ur making fun of my slang writing lol.. ahaha naw its ok.. it was just funny wut u said lol AND on top that lil dude... as much as you bought her such lovely gifts if you had better grammar and spelling you could write her beautiful poetry which she would probably keep forever and may win her back more then the gifts.. lol dat was funny Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ohio_isforLovers Posted June 20, 2005 Author Share Posted June 20, 2005 lol... Well im sorry with my slang words and all... But im facing hard times...MY ex lives rite in front of me which sux alot..! Link to post Share on other sites
strange love Posted June 21, 2005 Share Posted June 21, 2005 Well I can talk in slang too how about cockney? Cor lummee! lets gawk bout dem bleedin birds aye mate? Link to post Share on other sites
Da_1_n_OnlyN3na Posted June 21, 2005 Share Posted June 21, 2005 Well I can talk in slang too how about cockney? Cor lummee! lets gawk bout dem bleedin birds aye mate? ahahah ur silly lol.. omg i never thought of seeing this in loveshack lol hahaha but yea umm i think u shouldnt show up 4 that party.. cuz yea shes gonna feel unconfortabe and wut if she doesnt want u 2 b there?.. i mean not 2 put u down but her friend invited u not her.. and plus u r gonna get hurt if u c her with her bf u noe.. i dont think u should go and since she lives in front of you well go on with ur life as if u never had anything 2 do with her.. ignore every contact and try not to show that u care for her still.. send her the presents with one of her friends but dont go.. do u talk 2 her? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ohio_isforLovers Posted June 21, 2005 Author Share Posted June 21, 2005 uhhh not tat often as before.... But evertime i see her on Aim shes always ends up saying hi to me and i just say hi bak but thenn i ignore her... But we havent hanges out since then... Aye mate... Link to post Share on other sites
aares Posted June 22, 2005 Share Posted June 22, 2005 Dude...please dont give her gifts...please. Give her a card at the most. I also wouldnt go to avoid the hurt/anger/drama. Link to post Share on other sites
Da_1_n_OnlyN3na Posted June 22, 2005 Share Posted June 22, 2005 well u cant by love with money but show her that u spent sum money just for her but DO NOT i repeat DO NOT go to he party ur gonna c her bf and thats gonna hurt so much.. how did u guys end up breaking up? what happened.. how long have u been apart? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ohio_isforLovers Posted June 24, 2005 Author Share Posted June 24, 2005 Well... We both broke the relationship up because of some stupid conflict...And like after we broke up we were both stilll close too eatch other..For like an year..We were still hooking up and acted like the typical boyfriend and girlfrined... But i thaught she stopped liking me after we broke up...But my i was wrong because when she started goign out with this guy..She told me she liked me for allt his time and im like ''Uhh what? now u tell me? '' But yea its hard to get over this gurl espically when she lives right in front of u and when the friends that u hangout with keep on talking about her to me.... Link to post Share on other sites
Da_1_n_OnlyN3na Posted June 24, 2005 Share Posted June 24, 2005 yea thats tru what i do is like when my friends ask me about my ex or they mention somethingh about him i just say no no i dont want to talk about it please dont mention him.. and they respect that .. cuz i reaaly dont try to see him or talk to him again.. if i cant be with him i dont even want to be friends with him cuz thats like u have them but u really dont.. u noe wut i mean?.. well i understand what ur going thru...ull b fine dont worry every one kept telling me that i was going to be ok in a lil while and i did but its been hard im not saying its going to take a quik second for you to get over her cuz if u love her this much u wont.. and mayb you will meet another gurl in the future and who knows u might end up loving her but the way i see it u wont love her like u love this gurl .. am i right? lol Link to post Share on other sites
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