pineapple2016 Posted April 24, 2016 Share Posted April 24, 2016 Hi!! I have a weird situation here and just wanted some feedback? Thank you in advance. I met a man online and we had been texting daily for about two months. Mostly silly stuff like, and about our days. He was very sensitive and seemed to force a relationship right away which I think backfired for him? He was sensitive about the length of time I would take to reply and if I didn't ask him about his day. We continued to talk and eventually he flew to meet me one weekend. He said he was coming to "Save" me. He didn't express any feelings during his visit but when he left he turned to check and see if I was looking back to wave goodbye. He later texted that he had a good time. And made a joke about when I would pick him up again to go out. I was busy for a few days and only texted him back briefly. He then stopped texting so I would text him late at night to see how he was doing. As usual he would always respond instantly to my text and would talk for awhile and seem excited..but then would go flat and he would disappear without a goodnight. This happened for a few days. For one day he opened up about some problems he is having at job, he seemed really disgruntled. Finally the last day I initiated text to him and as usual he was excited and said we could catch up after he finished his project, I waited but then he informed me he was busy and going to sleep. He didn't ask about my day or anything. I asked him later that night if he is still into the relationship or not or angry and he replied this: Who is upset? U? Lol Me? Of course im not upset I was just busy Ur a very sweet person And I enjoyed the visit and am enjoying knowing u Im not playing sorry if you feel that way Yes there are difference and there are similarities between us. I wanted to see how it is closer I don't want to force anything on u or me though I learned the hard way. Good night (blush face). Haven't heard from him in over a week. He did stop checking his online dating profile for past week and cancel his subscription. Maybe this guy is in his cave? I feel like hes waiting for me to do something here lol . Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted April 25, 2016 Share Posted April 25, 2016 He just sounds weird, to be honest. Coming to "save" you? From what? I think he lost interest after you met in person. Which is probably a good thing because he seems ...off. He might have met someone local; in fact, given his disappearance, I think this is likely. He's not in his cave. Guys like him are bad news. I would forget about him and focus my efforts on finding someone local who is consistent in their efforts and interest. If I may ask, how old are you both? Link to post Share on other sites
fred123 Posted April 25, 2016 Share Posted April 25, 2016 Hi!! I have a weird situation here and just wanted some feedback? Thank you in advance. I met a man online and we had been texting daily for about two months. Mostly silly stuff like, and about our days. He was very sensitive and seemed to force a relationship right away which I think backfired for him? He was sensitive about the length of time I would take to reply and if I didn't ask him about his day. We continued to talk and eventually he flew to meet me one weekend. He said he was coming to "Save" me. He didn't express any feelings during his visit but when he left he turned to check and see if I was looking back to wave goodbye. He later texted that he had a good time. And made a joke about when I would pick him up again to go out. I was busy for a few days and only texted him back briefly. He then stopped texting so I would text him late at night to see how he was doing. As usual he would always respond instantly to my text and would talk for awhile and seem excited..but then would go flat and he would disappear without a goodnight. This happened for a few days. For one day he opened up about some problems he is having at job, he seemed really disgruntled. Finally the last day I initiated text to him and as usual he was excited and said we could catch up after he finished his project, I waited but then he informed me he was busy and going to sleep. He didn't ask about my day or anything. I asked him later that night if he is still into the relationship or not or angry and he replied this: Who is upset? U? Lol Me? Of course im not upset I was just busy Ur a very sweet person And I enjoyed the visit and am enjoying knowing u Im not playing sorry if you feel that way Yes there are difference and there are similarities between us. I wanted to see how it is closer I don't want to force anything on u or me though I learned the hard way. Good night (blush face). Haven't heard from him in over a week. He did stop checking his online dating profile for past week and cancel his subscription. Maybe this guy is in his cave? I feel like hes waiting for me to do something here lol . Hi as a guy who has done something similar i can give you my opinion. It looks like after he met u he lost interest. Sorry to say. I would not be acting like this. My suggestion is move on and dont talk to him again. Id like to ask did u guys ever speak on the phone or skype? And where did he stay when he flew to see you. Did u guys have sex? Link to post Share on other sites
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