PINCHERTY Posted April 25, 2016 Share Posted April 25, 2016 Hello, So my boyfriend and i are having a long distance relationship for +2 years (we've seen each other before many times) and we were chatting and calling each other almost every day but recently i felt it he kinda losts interest in me, we barely texted in an entire week, first time we havn't texted in so long (he always initiates contact) I recently texted him saying what's going on, he said that he was distracted by what's going on in his life, he is living his life and is excited by new projects, preoccupied by other stuff etc ..but he said that he doesn't want to lose contact with me nonetheless. I don't like the situation i am in..Should i apply the no contact rule with him and be indifferent towards him so that he understands that i don't like the distance we're having in this period ? Thank you for your reply! Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted April 25, 2016 Share Posted April 25, 2016 You don't understand the NC rule at all. NC is about healing yourself after a break up. What you are doing is thinking about giving him the silent treatment to punish him for ignoring you. That will make any problems you have worse, not better. Stop focusing on who's turn it is to call or text. Start planning to go see him ASAP. Being together will fix what ails your relationship faster than anything else. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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