joemarriage Posted April 25, 2016 Share Posted April 25, 2016 (edited) Long story. Will keep it short My gf and I broke up a few months ago. We were together a couple of years. My second gf since divorcing my wife 6 years ago. Now my exwife has been contacting me with more personal stuff and says she is interested in getting back together. I honestly don't want to get together with her as things are kind of normal in my life now. I understand the kids are involved. I do love her but could not go back with her. Why do crazy things like this happen in our lives. Just want to know pros and cons of seeing if it could work with exwife. Edited April 26, 2016 by a LoveShack.org Moderator 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Satu Posted April 25, 2016 Share Posted April 25, 2016 I wouldn't even consider it. If your marriage was ever going to work, it wouldn't have ended in divorce. You said: "Things are kind of normal in my life now." Stick with that. Normal is good. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted April 25, 2016 Share Posted April 25, 2016 I know a family that got divorced then married each other again. They seem kind of happy whenever I see them but she always looks drunk. Link to post Share on other sites
Densel Posted April 26, 2016 Share Posted April 26, 2016 You do not need the pros and cons of being a couple with your ex wife now. You need to be single for some time to clear your head then you can make better judgments when dating any woman. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
DoryJKS Posted April 27, 2016 Share Posted April 27, 2016 I do love her but could not go back with her...Just want to know pros and cons of seeing if it could work with exwife. It looks like you are not entirely sure about the "could not go back with her" if you are asking about pros and cons. I would have to agree with the person above: sometimes being alone for a while can be helpful. Link to post Share on other sites
TeddyBeer Posted April 27, 2016 Share Posted April 27, 2016 I wouldn't even consider it. If your marriage was ever going to work, it wouldn't have ended in divorce. You said: "Things are kind of normal in my life now." Stick with that. Normal is good. Alright that is not true, because a lot of people just give up on the first 'bump'. I dont know if TS did tho Link to post Share on other sites
dreamingoftigers Posted April 27, 2016 Share Posted April 27, 2016 You neither sound warm nor passionate about the possibility. That speaks volumes. Link to post Share on other sites
Author joemarriage Posted April 27, 2016 Author Share Posted April 27, 2016 Thanks for advice. I really didn't want to be back with exwife. Now to top it off exgf started texting me last night. She left after a stupid argument, now she just told me she wants to be in my lif and her son misses me and my kids. I pretty much took care of her son for the years we were together, his dad is absentee. Seriously why can't life just be simple. I loved this girl and her son. Telling me she can't imagine going through life with out me and all that crap. I love her but I will never marry her cause she just leaves after any disagreement. I need q drink damnit. lol Link to post Share on other sites
dst Posted April 27, 2016 Share Posted April 27, 2016 You seem to like a lot of high drama women in your life. Do not get back with the gf. Brinksmanship is no way to conduct a relationship. You will be on pins and needles the entire time you are with her, waiting for the other shoe to drop (and it will drop). Who needs that in your life? I agree with the other posters that a year or so alone to clear your head might be the most effective way to do things. Link to post Share on other sites
Jersey born raised Posted April 27, 2016 Share Posted April 27, 2016 What issues led to your dvorce? Do you really think they would not occur again. Are those issues with your ex repeating with again with GF 2? Link to post Share on other sites
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