stilltrying16 Posted May 17, 2016 Share Posted May 17, 2016 I've had a really bad couple of days I afraid. Just haven't felt myself and gave in a few times texting him, when he replied in short answers and coldly. He's destroying me, makes me feel shaky and he's like a different person since we were last intimate. He switches off his phone in the evenings (no answerphone) and am dreading tomorrow re any reply he might give. I'm trying not to be too clingy, but don't deserve this treatment and feel quite angry right now. I never usually appear so though and you're right, am always apologising! I wonder if he's finding a way to punish you for his sexual failure to perform the last time you were together. In one relationship I was in, this happened a couple of times and each time my bf found excuses to be mad at me. I finally wised up but it took some time. I just see the same pattern unfolding here. He is aware of your vulnerabilities and he can't forgive you for the fact that he's a screw up! It's unbelievable how clueless & illogical he is. He is punishing you for his failings. It happens more often than we realize. I am glad you are tapping into your anger. You deserve to be loved and cherished. He is incapable of either IMO. You don't hurt people. You don't want to impose on them and you shoulder the blame when bad things happen. You are being unfair to yourself. When I look back 20 years I wish so much I had been more nurturing - to my younger self. Don't wait 20 years to be kind to yourself. You deserve to be surrounded by love and laughter and other good things! You mentioned therapy. How did that go? Were you able to get in line for the full 10 sessions? Link to post Share on other sites
NTV Posted May 17, 2016 Share Posted May 17, 2016 No man is THAT important. Fyi - Except me. --------------- So you in and texted him and now you feel worse? Link to post Share on other sites
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