What the hell is she thinking?

[Dzed]

I was freinds with a woman at work, we were very good freinds for over a year. Toward the end of last year I was leaving my wife and around the same time I started having very strong feelings for this woman, and she admitted she had some for me as well. We never really started a heavy relationship as she was afraid to get into one for various reasons. Over the course of a couple of months a I tried to get her to change her mind, not heavy just every so often. Somtimes she was receptive sometimes she ignored me. I finally gave up and stopped contacting her or initiateing contact at work. Though when she sees me she still waves and smiles like a crazy person. Will hold glances with me even touches me somtimes, sometimes just walks by. I would reciprocate the waving at first now I usually turn away or pretend I didn't see her. About a month ago I did tell her to stop that **** because it confuses me. I said you wanted no relationship that was your choice so stick with it. I got I'm sorry she doesn't know what to say. She still does it. I am full blown ignoring her now. I admit I'm still head over heels for her, she sits nearby and I hear her all day and it kills me. I wear my headphone to play music to drown her out. I'm dating again in fact Im with a girl I really like. But this other one is still under my skin especially at work. Outside I do a good job not thinking of her. My questions are is she some kind of ******* or is she really confused herself? And How the hell do I get her out of my mind? as you can see I am trying. I am in my forties if that makes a difference.