toothlessbamboo Posted April 30, 2016 Share Posted April 30, 2016 (edited) Okay, so I'd like to get everyone's opinion/perspective on this. Cause I'm a little confused myself. So here goes (apology in advance if its long) So I met this women thru my job, and we are both peers so neither one of us supervise the other. In fact I met her when she first started. Thought nothing more of it. It wasn't until about 8 months later that some friends of mine noticed that she would be really interested and engaged when she talked to me, showed all the signs of interest. (if you already couldn't tell I am little blind when it comes to these things). Anyhow, I became more active and started chatting with her more. Over time the short chats would turn into pretty deep conversations about movies, life, travel, and well you get the idea. Well it was time for me to step it up and try set a date. So the first date didn't happen cause she already plans with friends, but she did send me messages and photos of her day later that evening. We continued to chat and whatnot. Well we ended up seeing each other at another event, we tried to find each other and was messaging back and forth. We finally ended up hanging out at the end and went to the bar afterward with a group of other people. We chatted had good time, friends told me that she was giving me the "googly" eyes when we talked. I asked her again if she wanted to grab dinner and drinks sometime which was well received. She mentioned that she was going out of town this weekend and that the following weekend she had an out of town friend coming to visit. So I'm like thats fine we can go the following weekend which she said that would be good. I told her we can confirm everything when she is back. Anyhow, since she was going out of town that evening so I made sure she got out in time, got her a cab and waited for her. (Yes I was raised to be a gentlemen). I gave her some space cause she was traveling to see family and I said I'd catch up with her when she got back. She gets back and I message her a few days later, giving her time to catch up at work. Its been about 2 days from my message and I haven't heard anything where she usually replies within a reasonable amount of time. So basically it feels that she went and did a complete 180 on me. Any thoughts/perspectives on this would be greatly appreciated. (also please keep it tasteful thanks!) Edited April 30, 2016 by toothlessbamboo Link to post Share on other sites
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