tommyc Posted May 1, 2016 Share Posted May 1, 2016 Nothing provactive, just goofy pictures. She's been doing this more frequently as of late? What does this mean? Is this flirting, google says that women who send selfies regardless if they are sexy or not, is a sign a woman is into you. I've known this woman for about 7 years so this behavior is a little peculiar and out of the blue. Link to post Share on other sites
hippychick3 Posted May 1, 2016 Share Posted May 1, 2016 It's definitely flirtatious and inappropriate. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
deckard11 Posted May 1, 2016 Share Posted May 1, 2016 Yeah, she's into you. Your move now dude. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted May 1, 2016 Share Posted May 1, 2016 Nothing provactive, just goofy pictures. She's been doing this more frequently as of late? What does this mean? Is this flirting, google says that women who send selfies regardless if they are sexy or not, is a sign a woman is into you. I've known this woman for about 7 years so this behavior is a little peculiar and out of the blue. Are you enjoying this or does it bother you? If bothers you, then tell her to stop and that you find it inappropriate and don't think her husband would appreciate what she's doing by sending selfies to you. What's the story here, are you friends with both her and her husband or is this friendship kept quiet from her H? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author tommyc Posted May 1, 2016 Author Share Posted May 1, 2016 (edited) Are you enjoying this or does it bother you? If bothers you, then tell her to stop and that you find it inappropriate and don't think her husband would appreciate what she's doing by sending selfies to you. What's the story here, are you friends with both her and her husband or is this friendship kept quiet from her H? It doesn't bother me because I think they are funny innocent pictures (Sticking her tongue out, eating a rather large sandwich, her sitting next to people sleeping in an airplane, and a picture of her near a "Welcome to Califonia" sign are the most recent pics I've gotten) Yes, I am friends with her, notso much her husband, we do get along, but I wouldn't call it a friendship with him. I don't think it's a secret because he has mentioned stories about previous conversations her and I had that she found funny. Again, I was just curious what the pics meant because all of a sudden they came out of nowhere after being friends with her for a such a long time being friends. Edited May 1, 2016 by tommyc Link to post Share on other sites
RedPurpleOrange Posted May 1, 2016 Share Posted May 1, 2016 > red alert < 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Gloria25 Posted May 1, 2016 Share Posted May 1, 2016 It doesn't bother me because I think they are funny innocent pictures (Sticking her tongue out, eating a rather large sandwich, her sitting next to people sleeping in an airplane, and a picture of her near a "Welcome to Califonia" sign are the most recent pics I've gotten) Yes, I am friends with her, notso much her husband, we do get along, but I wouldn't call it a friendship with him. I don't think it's a secret because he has mentioned stories about previous conversations her and I had that she found funny. Again, I was just curious what the pics meant because all of a sudden they came out of nowhere after being friends with her for a such a long time being friends. Forward the pics to her husband and ask his opinion. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
dustin2016 Posted May 1, 2016 Share Posted May 1, 2016 Forward the pics to her husband and ask his opinion. Disagree.. I wouldnt destabilize their marriage over just goofy pictures, sure that may signal an intent on her part but if you are really her friend, youd address this to her directly first. See where her head is at, ask if shes developing feelings or desires towards you now, or if it is innocent. But definitely do not damage the marriage unless you are certain you are doing the right thing by doing so, not over a "hunch". And if it turns out this isnt innocent, do the right thing. End the friendship, you can find other friends. Its much more messy for her to find another marriage or fail in this one. Link to post Share on other sites
Gloria25 Posted May 1, 2016 Share Posted May 1, 2016 Disagree.. I wouldnt destabilize their marriage over just goofy pictures, sure that may signal an intent on her part but if you are really her friend, youd address this to her directly first. See where her head is at, ask if shes developing feelings or desires towards you now, or if it is innocent. But definitely do not damage the marriage unless you are certain you are doing the right thing by doing so, not over a "hunch". And if it turns out this isnt innocent, do the right thing. End the friendship, you can find other friends. Its much more messy for her to find another marriage or fail in this one. Destabilizing what? All he's doing is forwarding the pics to her husband and asking him what does he think of the selfies. It's up to the husband what he wants to do with that info. It's another thing if the OP forwarded and/or showed the pics to the hubby and said like "I think your wife is flirting with me". My brother and his wife and kids share phones, tablets, laptops. You darn skippy if any of them are sending selfies to people, the other would know. That's a marriage - no secrets. I gotta be careful what I text to them, cuz I have no idea who's reading the txts at times The OP forwarding the pics to her husband is simply letting the husband know something the husband should already know by virtue of being her husband. I'm all for privacy with my e-mail and texts to friends and stuff and wouldn't want my SO to see some stuff I say to my gfs, but the OP is not a gf, he's a dude. Totally inappropriate for a "married woman" to be continuously send selfies to a dude other than her husband - I don't care how rated "G" or "PG" or "PG-13" the selfies are. Link to post Share on other sites
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