blackendangel13 Posted June 20, 2005 Share Posted June 20, 2005 Ok so the big mess continues. For a little more background see "Very Confused" in the friends forum. To sum up the back story quickly, my best friend has been blowing me off a lot. For the past month or more he has been avoiding my calls and emails. So I saw him about a week and a half ago and he went crazy apologizing and bla bla bla and said he promised he'd come to my housewarming party the coming Sunday. Then he kissed me and freaked out. Sunday comes, of course he is nowhere to be found with no phone call either. So this Saturday I saw him again and didn't want to hear any of it. I was sick of his bull**** apologies so I tried to avoid him at all costs. Well he managed to corner me anyway and went on about how he had my gift in the van. I assume thats what he meant but he was completely wasted out of his mind and was mumbling the words. So he hugged me and I didn't hug back. He seemed really upset. He tried telling me he had lost his numbers, but the screen he was showing me was to read email. Even if this had happened he had three cell phones with my number on them and I had called him Sunday and his phone was off. Not only that but he could have called a few people and easily got my number. I just walked away from him for the rest of the night. I feel bad but I have enough drama in my life without getting it from my best friend too. I think its time to let him go but it sucks. I care about him a lot. Link to post Share on other sites
blackangel Posted June 22, 2005 Share Posted June 22, 2005 To be honest I would walk away from him. He seems more hassle then its worth. Link to post Share on other sites
ReluctantRomeo Posted June 22, 2005 Share Posted June 22, 2005 Ask him what's really going on. Sounds like he's falling apart and could use a friend. If he's willing to be honest. Link to post Share on other sites
Author blackendangel13 Posted June 22, 2005 Author Share Posted June 22, 2005 Well we actually had a long talk the night he kissed me about whats going on in his life and how he feels. I am actually starting to find him less and less attractive in general because he seems to just go through life drunk and thinks he can apologize his way through everything he does wrong and everyone will bend over backwards to forgive him. Then when I do, he blows me off and breaks more of his promises. I don't know what else to do. I got an email from him (which was a mass forward) so I know his email is back up, but nothing personal. He must not care that much or need a friend that badly or he would come to me. Its hard to help someone who won't let you help them. Link to post Share on other sites
ReluctantRomeo Posted June 22, 2005 Share Posted June 22, 2005 Originally posted by blackendangel13 Its hard to help someone who won't let you help them. True. He sounds like a nightmare. Link to post Share on other sites
Author blackendangel13 Posted June 22, 2005 Author Share Posted June 22, 2005 It sucks because he didn't used to be like this at all. This has only been in the past month and a half. Either way, I have to see him Thursday, maybe I will just ask him what the hell his problem is. Link to post Share on other sites
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