Buckskin92 Posted May 2, 2016 Posted May 2, 2016 Hey I am I love with me best friend she is so special to me. We have been friends for 4 years and I told her how I feel and She says she only sees me as her best friend. We did hook up Once but it was we were both drinking we both remember it and Liked it but we never again had sex . I really love her she is helping Me right now through the lost of my mom . She has a bf and I like Don't mind him but I have had these feeling for years. Help me plz
Tayla Posted May 2, 2016 Posted May 2, 2016 Sure. Here's my help for you. Continue with the grief of a loss. Do not assume or expect reciprocal love when you are endearing friends. Respect that boundary. Sincerely sorry about the parental loss... Let's not lose a friend .. They are far and few 1
carhill Posted May 2, 2016 Posted May 2, 2016 Hard to get over but some distance might help. One tip: Don't have sex with friends except if everyone has tools on-board for casual, unattached, sex.
preraph Posted May 2, 2016 Posted May 2, 2016 I agree with Carhill. Just about the only thing you can do is use self-discipline and refocus on other people and other areas of your life. You have been having tunnel vision for this person and that's got to stop. You have to make a deliberate move to incorporate old friends and make new friends and make yourself go out and do something NOT with her at least once a week to stimulate your social life. Once you shift your focus to where she is not the center of your universe, then you will get past this and move forward. But do not wait for this to just happen spontaneously. Moving on from unrequited love takes self-discipline. You will find new strengths you never knew you could summon.
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