SyamChang Posted May 2, 2016 Share Posted May 2, 2016 There's a girl . She's amazing . We've been talking for almost a year . The thing is we are far from each other . But that doesnt stop us for talking for days . We jokes around each other , tell each other how was our day and stuff like that . We make fun of each other almost everyday . But she told me since the beginnign shes not looking for a relationship . The thing is , Im starting to fall for her . And this feeling is sincere . Trust me , I;ve been with a lot of girls , but never one makes my heart beats so fast . But she always put me in my place , as a friend . She reminds me of it everytime I confess to her . But I cant do this anymore . I know I can be her boyfriend , even her husband if she gives me a chance . I told her that I would use the very last drop of my strength for me to open d door in her heart . But she just replies me coldly like "whatever" , "hmmm "etc . Im not saying that I have the full package , but people around me always says that Im good looking , funny , charming , the whole package . But the thing is it just wont work on her ! Help me guys . Is she really doesnt have feelings for me , or she just wants me to give her more effort ? Help @@ and sorry if its wrong forum @@ Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted May 3, 2016 Share Posted May 3, 2016 I'm sorry, but she is not at all interested in you. She couldn't have been any clearer. If a woman is even one iota interested, she does not shut you down every time you bring up the subject. Just because you think you'd make a good boyfriend doesn't mean she wants you for her boyfriend. She probably likes you as a friend but isn't attracted. You are wasting time. If she was at all attracted, she wouldn't be telling you no over and over. You are going to have to move on and find someone new to bestow your many charms on, because she doesn't want them in a romantic way. Link to post Share on other sites
Author SyamChang Posted May 3, 2016 Author Share Posted May 3, 2016 I'm sorry, but she is not at all interested in you. She couldn't have been any clearer. If a woman is even one iota interested, she does not shut you down every time you bring up the subject. Just because you think you'd make a good boyfriend doesn't mean she wants you for her boyfriend. She probably likes you as a friend but isn't attracted. You are wasting time. If she was at all attracted, she wouldn't be telling you no over and over. You are going to have to move on and find someone new to bestow your many charms on, because she doesn't want them in a romantic way. My mistake there . Shes not shutting me down everytime . She told me that she thinks about what I ask her a lot . And told me if she ever wanna be in a relationship , she wants it to last . I mean marriage . I want the same thing too . Ive been with a lot of girls , but none of them ever made me feel this way . And she ever told me , that if im sure I want her as a gf or just to satisfy the ego of always get what I want . I want to wait for her , but it just feel like **** every time I wants to move on . I miss everything about her , and I cant stand to not talk to her . But yeah , theres a point where I wanted to leave . And then she sent me something , which is good things never come easy . Work for it , show your effort etc etc I forgot . But the thing is she did showed me a sign that she doesnt want me to give up on her . Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted May 3, 2016 Share Posted May 3, 2016 If she was really interested in you and not just lukewarm about it, she wouldn't be putting you off this way. She'd be all over you. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author SyamChang Posted May 3, 2016 Author Share Posted May 3, 2016 If she was really interested in you and not just lukewarm about it, she wouldn't be putting you off this way. She'd be all over you. Thing is , not all girls are like that . I met one before . She shows me no interest at all in the beginning . But with that girl , it was about my ego . I have to sleep with her to prove that I can . ( stupid , I know ) . But this girl , is a whole lot different than the one before . I am head over heels for her , but I just don't know if I should wait or not . She told her friends that she likes me ( one of them told me ) , but thing is , if she likes me , why wait ? Why not do this now ? Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted May 3, 2016 Share Posted May 3, 2016 Because she probably doesn't mean "like" as in attracted to. If you really believed there was no problem, you wouldn't have asked the question. You know the interest isn't equal. It sounds like you think she's making you jump through hoops, and if so, why would you like that? You're who used the phrase "if she'd give me a chance," but then when I come back with "She's not very interested," you give me that she is. It's contradictory. Let me ask you: How many times have you been face to face with this girl? If this is just an online romance, she could be an old man with a beard. Do you Skype regularly? So do you even know who you're talking to? Has she seen you on Skype and have you seen her? Has she ever asked you for money or gifts? Something is off here if everything you say is true. Link to post Share on other sites
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