Kimi2464 Posted June 20, 2005 Share Posted June 20, 2005 Hello and thanks in advance for your replies. Just would like to say first off...A friend and I were talking about this the other day and I wanted to see what other people thought about the subject. 1. When intoxicated do you feel honesty comes out more, or is it more of a drunken memory loss, then you wake up and have no idea what you said, or you don't know why you said it. 2. If you think the answer to #1 is that feelings do come out, do you think drunken sex is a different thing? Just wondering. Thanks! Kimi Link to post Share on other sites
Pocky Posted June 20, 2005 Share Posted June 20, 2005 Originally posted by Kimi2464 1. When intoxicated do you feel honesty comes out more, or is it more of a drunken memory loss, then you wake up and have no idea what you said, or you don't know why you said it. I wouldn't say that honesty comes out more. I have been in situations where I allowed the alcohol to affect how I responded to other people. While being intoxicated there may have been an attraction to someone simply because I was intoxicated and not necessarily because I liked that person. Alcohol impairs your judgment - it isn't necessarily a truth serum. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Kimi2464 Posted June 20, 2005 Author Share Posted June 20, 2005 Yeah I agree that judgement is impaired, but I know that when I get drunk, I can't keep my mouth shut, I am bullet proof and I worry about it the next day. I do think drunken sex is different because that is when judgement is the most impared. But for the most part you are incharge of yourself no matter what. Link to post Share on other sites
scared shy Posted June 20, 2005 Share Posted June 20, 2005 I know for me it's like sodium pentothal... I end up spuing from the mouth and almost always end up regretting it later. I think just with like every other stimulant/depressant out there it effects different people in different ways... Link to post Share on other sites
SexKitten Posted June 21, 2005 Share Posted June 21, 2005 both... i have found myself brutally honest while intoxicated, and have told blatant lies. Link to post Share on other sites
How_Do_I_Know Posted June 22, 2005 Share Posted June 22, 2005 I think that honesty does come out when you are drunk in ways of words, however when you have sex with someone when you are drunk, then it is totally different because you have your beer goggles on. I am not in love with my husband and while drunk I have told him that I DON'T love him but can have good sex with him when drunk. Actually, that is the only time I WOULD have sex with him. LOL! I have also blurted out that I wanted to see "someone" to him and he would be like "who?".... so in meaning of words..... honesty does come out while drunk, but sexually...... just the beer goggles playing tricks on you. Link to post Share on other sites
Pocky Posted June 22, 2005 Share Posted June 22, 2005 Originally posted by SexKitten i have found myself brutally honest while intoxicated, and have told blatant lies. Yes, as I'm sure most people have (including myself). Alcohol makes things even more confusing for everyone involved. Link to post Share on other sites
westernxer Posted June 22, 2005 Share Posted June 22, 2005 When I'm drunk I become a kleptomaniac. My specialty is hearts. Link to post Share on other sites
miss-gonewest Posted June 22, 2005 Share Posted June 22, 2005 My mother always used to say that "a drunk mans words are a sober mans thoughts"... And I think for once she may have been right. I've often said far more than I have wanted to when I've been drunk... but hey, nothing too bad so far. In some situations being drunk is helpful - it's a great social lubricant. The very clever thing I need to learn is when to have that last drink... and to shut up. Link to post Share on other sites
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