Stage5Clinger Posted May 7, 2016 Share Posted May 7, 2016 By your man? You know like in bed or on the couch with one of his arms wrapped around you keeping you close? I guess you might also call it cuddling. I always assumed most women like it but my ex did not. Of course, she's an ex for a reason. Link to post Share on other sites
Mrs. John Adams Posted May 7, 2016 Share Posted May 7, 2016 I sure do. Any touch... Or caress. Love being wrapped in his arms... Makes me feel loved and treasured and protected 1 Link to post Share on other sites
losangelena Posted May 7, 2016 Share Posted May 7, 2016 I suppose everyone is different in this regard, but yes, of course! Fwiw, my ex also liked it when I put my arm around him. He looooooooooved being the little spoon. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Michelle ma Belle Posted May 7, 2016 Share Posted May 7, 2016 Abso-f*cking-lutely! I'm a cuddle monster. I'm Italian after all Link to post Share on other sites
Arieswoman Posted May 7, 2016 Share Posted May 7, 2016 Whaaaat ? Of course women like to be held and "cuddled". by their man Well I do, anyway.... Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted May 7, 2016 Share Posted May 7, 2016 Love cuddling, but I don't like a man following me around the house like they can't let me out of their sight. So there are limits. I've found that usually extreme cuddlers are also following you around being too clingy. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
jen1447 Posted May 7, 2016 Share Posted May 7, 2016 Definitely. I like to be the holder tho too sometimes. Link to post Share on other sites
TunaCat Posted May 7, 2016 Share Posted May 7, 2016 I'm a woman and I absolutely hate cuddling, so yes there are some women who hate cuddling. Having one arm around my shoulders is fine, but I hate being wrapped in anyone's arms. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
MrDuck Posted May 7, 2016 Share Posted May 7, 2016 My gf wasn't so into this at the start. We moved very very slowly, which was what brought me here in the first place. When we initially got together she would give us a kiss but was much more reluctant to have a cuddle. She's a fiercely independent girl, and not big on the whole vulnerability thing. As we've got closer that's changed, like she'll never be all over me, and she'll never be big on PDA's.. but like now when we stick a movie on the tele she'll sit down on the sofa and cuddle straight up to me or when she's sad, or sick or had a bad day I used to tease her like "Come on, you know want a hug" and she'd always roll her eyes and give me one, but now I don't say a word, she'll be straight over for a hug. Because she isn't like that all the time, with everyone, it actually means like 100x more when she is.. It makes me feel special, it makes me feel secure in our relationship. Its also probably when I feel the most relaxed. She'll have her head on my chest and I'll be able to feel her breathing, and occasionally she'll glance up at me and give me little smile.....yeah...I dig that.. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
jen1447 Posted May 7, 2016 Share Posted May 7, 2016 I'm a woman and I absolutely hate cuddling, so yes there are some women who hate cuddling. Having one arm around my shoulders is fine, but I hate being wrapped in anyone's arms. I could convert you into a cuddler. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Raena Posted May 7, 2016 Share Posted May 7, 2016 Yes, I like it. Cuddling is the best. I don't like it when I'm trying to fall asleep though. Just being next to me is enough, touching side to side... but putting arms or legs on top of me just hurts after awhile and feels constricting. Link to post Share on other sites
ChickiePops Posted May 8, 2016 Share Posted May 8, 2016 I like to cuddle but not when I'm sleeping. When it's time to sleep, no touchies!! Link to post Share on other sites
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