Kelly Posted June 13, 1999 Share Posted June 13, 1999 I am a 33 year old woman, have been seeing a 32 year old man for the past 2-3 months, we both agreed in the beginning that neither were interested in a relationship. I didn't think I was ready for one and his previous relationship was a bad one. He has told me that he is "feeling attached" to me. Truth be known, I am beginning to have more feelings for him, but haven't really told him exactly how I feel. Nor the fact that I am feeling now that I do want a relationship and with him... I think I need to talk to him and tell him exactly how I feel. The thing I'm wondering is how to approach this subject especially on what we both agreed on in the beginning. I'm also wondering how he might react to it? HELP! Any advice would/will be greatly appreciated !! Kelly Link to post Share on other sites
Flippzoid Posted June 29, 1999 Share Posted June 29, 1999 I am a 33 year old woman, have been seeing a 32 year old man for the past 2-3 months, we both agreed in the beginning that neither were interested in a relationship. I didn't think I was ready for one and his previous relationship was a bad one. He has told me that he is "feeling attached" to me. Truth be known, I am beginning to have more feelings for him, but haven't really told him exactly how I feel. Nor the fact that I am feeling now that I do want a relationship and with him... I think I need to talk to him and tell him exactly how I feel. The thing I'm wondering is how to approach this subject especially on what we both agreed on in the beginning. I'm also wondering how he might react to it? HELP! Any advice would/will be greatly appreciated !! Kelly re:Need Advice Quick Why mention the scary word relashionshp? Take things slow give feelings time to develop.How to approach? Don't. When the subject comes up how you feel about one another.Then, tell him gradually.But,let things develop.Since his previous relashionship wasn't a good one give him time to heal old wounds.while both of you start something new and refreshing. hope my advice helped you out some.Flppzoid Link to post Share on other sites
Flippzoid Posted June 29, 1999 Share Posted June 29, 1999 Re:Need Advice Quick Why mention the scary word relashionship?Take things slow give feelings time to develop. How to approach? Don't. When the subject arises how you feel about one-another and it will.Then,tell him gradually.But,lt things develop. since his previous relashionship wasn't a good one,give him time to heal old wounds.While both of you start something new and refreshing.Hope my advice helped you out some.Flippzoid Link to post Share on other sites
Recommended Posts