It's been 2 months of no contact, should I contact her or wait?

[TheSwanGirl]

I'm sorry OP. But believe us, there's someone else. My boyfriend (now ex) broke up with me almost 4 months ago using the same words. Then I found out. I was in denial. I am, I guess. I don't want to believe he left me after 5 years for someone else, but he did. Never trust anyone else again.

 

If she's not contacting you, you shouldn't. I know it's tempting, and we, the dumpees, suffer more than the dumper: they've been preparing for this moment a long time ago.

 

I hope you're doing better now!

Edited May 18, 2016 by TheSwanGirl

[Robert]

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